Thank you for reading first of all, Sorry if I give to much background info but I figured it would be a good idea.

I was really really good at picking up women, couple of years back. I found a special someone, but we ended up going our separate ways.

Now I'm back in the 'dating' scene, or 'game' scene.

I have the frame, of Cocky & Funny, with change in roll play (her wanting me, etc) that worked in the past, and has worked pretty much for everything back then.. so I keep that up now as I started PUA adventures again, hell is who I am.

Now I found these two girls, I'm starting to get to know. I have received very similar feed back from both of them. They both say something like "wow you are so funny!" but then they say "you are a clown!" "you are too much!" now the funny, and the too much I can take, but the clown part I'm not so sure, I do not want to become a clown, just by saying a comment like "after seeing a face like mine, you'll never have nightmares again" or something of that style... Those types of cocky comments with that kind of humor is all I've been doing, and I think I'm over doing it, to the point that it releases tension and they start taking me not too seriously...

I want to start to Tease more (such as making fun of them) instead of saying jokingly that I'm the best piece of ass in Canada. But I seem to be a little bit dry in this department.

Please put your input, on what would be the best to improve, I will humbly read all suggestions, Thank you for your feed back.

P.S : I don't know what = no se que (just if you were wondering about my nick here)

I could use some more info about them...such as do they have any features or traits that you could neg them about. As for them teasing you...next time they tease you, you can respond with "Oh but you like it." maybe add a wink if you are feeling up to it!

so you think, that they telling me, that "you are such a clown" or "wow you are so funny... are you high?" its a way of teasing me? if so, it changes things, I was taking it as just me going a bit overboard...

and to tease them? hm.. geez a hard one. one is short, I usually call her "smalls" ... and the other one? hmm I'll get back to you.... she can't be perfect , can she? hehe

The clown one has potential to be a tease, but asking if you are high really doesnt fall into that category. Do they have a legitimate reason to ask if you are high (sorry for my blunt question--you dont have to answer if dont want). If they joke about something that offends you, make it known that it offends you but don't get too defensive...something like "ouch that hurt" or "that was a low blow" should get the point across that they took it a little too far.

"Smalls" is good, I wouldnt change that one...as for the other im SURE you will find a flaw! haha but you could always call her "little miss perfect" or say in a nonchalant way: "you're too innocent for me".... and leave it at that...that might lead to escalation of kino too--she wont want to seem innocent if she is into you.

Too high energy... And too many routines and jokes I guess.

You have to avoid being the entertainer, that will cause you to lose value. This is the reason for Mysterys warning about not using too many routines. I think Style use only one or maybe two during his sarges.

I know what you feel, in the beginning you always have to calibrate and crash and burn until you get it right. When I started people frequently asked me if I was high or drunk...

Hang in there!

Thanks for the advice , I'll keep you posted I guess...

Thanks man, yeah... I think I usually do one, or two, but I believe I'm over doing them, and it releases the tension. I'll work on that one... I gotta find a way of NOT being a normal and boring, but I don't want to be TOO different.

I'll keep you posted too, of what will work for me again. Ha after two years out of it, I found it harder than what it used to be.

i know what ya mean man. i mean ive never been good with girls, but i always get told im the funniest person theyve ever met, or i am so funny, and like, i dont have any cocky to go with it. i mean, physically and humorously, im pretty much jonah hill, who plays seth in superbad. if yall have seen that film, im an english version of him. i wanna know what to do to make myself an attractive ugly guy. ha

yeah, well you know one of the hardest parts is being funny... and you got that down, you might have to play with it a little until you find funny that is attractive, usually cocky and funny is attractive.

My problem i believe lies in a little part of my personality going too much with that cocky/funny attitude, being more funny than cocky. so I gotta start being more cocky less funny, as well as not over do it.

yeah, i've seen Superbad, its one of my favorites movies of all time. well I think you should not try to be attractive, but BE attractive. that means practicing better posture, put your chest up, your stomach in, stand tall, put your neck up. Excercise, because if you want to lose weight it will help you, and excercising will give you more energy, and will make you feel good overall. and just realize that nobody is perfect, but be confident, if you really are, it shows when you are around girls.

I like this topic, Im new to PUA, but ive always been pretty cocky funny anyway, but i have the same problem as you noseque07, i use it too much, im really good at making fun of a girl, but i do it ALLOT, i really need to keep it to a minimum but it seems to be working. I'm also very very sarcastic, is that a bad thing?

Dear Clown,

Realize that by Overdoing Cocky & Funny those girls consider you unreal and not to be taken seriously

go here:
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click the link on that post and scroll down to Principle #6 Humility and Humor Can Go a Long Way.

Make sense it should

Good Luck

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Oh it works, and it will work, it creates tension, and it makes it hard for her to figure out. But like me, if you over do this, or go overboard, like Reo said, she will not take you seriously. I've discovered in the past few days, that is much better to demonstrate a higher value with your persona and character, such as your body language, than with words (aka cocky and funny).

What I'm doing is easing up the cocky since I was going overboard, but I still am funny, however I'm also incorporating a more sexual, real me. Also I suggest that you don't move slowly; if you happen to have my same 'problem' in my opinion is easier when you go through the "bridges" a bit faster.
Thank you Reo,

Thanks for the link, I've also recently downloaded "The Attraction Code" which has cleared a lot of things and helped me realized more profound information. Along with some heavy reading in this forum.

Thanks guys, yeah the last few days ive been working allot on body language and damn it, i dont even really need to talk anymore haha but seriously another thing i was wondering is that i am a pretty good looking guy, so should i cut down on the whole cocky "im the shit" thing even more, so i dont look like some arrogant ass-hole?...cause a few people already call me that haha