im afraid to ask this girl to meet me..to spend some time 2getha in town or so...

what can i do about it?

If you dont do it, it will never happen. How shit will you feel knowning that u never even asked her, u had 0% chance of her saying yes. Imagine regreting not doing it in a few months, how shit you will feel and wishing you could go back and just ask.

Just do it, whats the worst that could happen? (thats a rhetorical question btw, nothing that bad can happen )

/madals

if she says yes...where should i take her?

its the first time i do sth like that

Set something up where you're going to be going anyway and invite her to come along. What I did once was I really wanted to go to the movies by myself, but I couldn't pull myself to do it. (Before you laugh, its very healthy to be able to treat yourself to a movie) Anyway, what I did was I really liked this girl in college and we had been talking a little about movies and such so I said "Hey, I'm going to see Iron Man on sunday at 12. You should come with me!" She ended up not being able to come, which I semi-expected, but it was a win win. I got to ask her to hang out because I really liked her, but since she couldn't come I also got to go to the movies and enjoy myself.

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Men fall in love with their eyes. Women fall in love with their ears.

i'm afraid that i meet her but imagine she sits towards me an were talkin bout sth and after a time i dunno what to talk about thats emberassing

Ok this igt sound harsh but its brilliant advice!
Grow a pair.

Women are not attacted to she men who worry, think about everything and dont want to take risks. Thats why the "bad guys" always seem to get the girl.

Now, ofc you dont haave to be a drug smugling abusive male to get the girl. You just have to show the GOOD qualities these men have. They are not affraid to take a risk, make the move, they know people will listen to them, they lead.

As for the conversation, just let if flow. If you cant think of anything just move onto something else, anything. You should expect to put in about 90% of the conversation for the first hour or so. Then it should start balence out. If you cant think of anything to say just give her a sweet look in the eye.

Stop thinking/worring and go act!

/madals

@ Madals:thx 4 ur help check ur PN

If you run out of things to say use a gambit. Cube. ESP whatever.

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Men fall in love with their eyes. Women fall in love with their ears.