So basically I asked her out this weekend and she said its a busy weekend and I have finals next week but what do you have in mind. I was thinking something like "Are you afraid I will wear you out you wont be able to concentrate on studying after you go out with me" or something of the sorts but it sounds lame to me. Any help on a text back. Also I don't want her to go out with me then it turns out to be a lame date because I dont know of anything going on this weekend yet.

I'm not sure what you were thinking about when you "Asked her Out" with absolutely no plan
You have always be 2 to 3 steps ahead. but its your lucky day I happened to see your post.

I like your thoughts: think it make that your Goal for the interaction but don't send that


since you already screwed up
the best thing i can tell you to tell her right now is 1st text- Tell me a time free you're free. 2nd text- Ok I'll call then As far as what we'll do I like to be spontaneous come over here and we'll figure it out.

if she comes over your good to go as long as u have entainment quality example tv, movies, music at you should be you should be good. Don't waste her time either by talking her to death let your thoughts become reality

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Hey dude thanks for the help. I didn't want to wait any longer and I sent a text before I saw your reply. I just said "so much going on this weekend Friday I'm going to my friends show then a club after you can tag along if you don't have to study...nerd " (anyone else every think what if she finds this thread online?) That could lead to a potentially embarrassing situation.....

Also hot ass avatar!

I wish u would have held off a bit longer
that message you sent was no good it leaves her with too many options to not show up and you created more obstacles for yourself with the friends even if you don't go its in her mind your friends will be there too.
My message forces her to give an absolute yes or no answer and it puts you 2 alone together at your place much easier

I would say send the message I told you anyways but you didn't leave any opening for it.....You know what you only live once send it but modify the 1st message and ask about Saturday

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