| Ok, So heres a blog from myspace I did and girls response to it.
heir was this feirce burning fire with in me
This raging anger
I was simmering,
and it was so much it was like I was ready to explode.
It happans, all across the country, the office lights go off, the neon bar lights come on, and the quest for romance begins, they say some men got it, and some don't, some men are smooth and some are not, but there is a new movement at foot, saying, you can be tought.
In late 2007 a co worker gave me a book , called, the game, by Neil Strauss, and in this book, it tells the story of a man, who entered a comunity of pick up artist. and he went from, what they call Average Frustrated Chump, to, Mpua. with in a year, he was a rock jourlalist. who had only been kissed by Tommy Lee, Now, hes dating the lead gutarist for, Courtney Love.
Reading the book, and learning about this new movment, was a new revelation for me, becouse now, suddenly there were soultions to my problems,
and the path towards healing began.
I started reading more books on pick up, chating online, rechiveing newsletters, on a wide range of subjects regarding pick up
Some might say, this is, munipulitive, desprete, even pathetic, I on other hand beg to differ.
Most of what Neil Strauss learned was from the mystery method, a method that sytematically takes men through the steps to show that they are the tribal leader of their community that women, are evalutionarly designed to seek out.
But you might ask, we does this all begin
theirs the neg, sort for, negitive, they sugest, instead of complementing a women, tease her, mock her, mystery suggest saying, "you are such a little shit, you know why me and you, will never get along, becouse were too simular, I wouldnt take your shit, you wouldnt take my shit. Or more simply, "you are such a brat, how do you guys deal with this girl".
Most guys, doubt this when they first try it, but most have found it works like a charm.
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aldebaran
You know, I've been reading your blogs for a while now, and I wasn't going to bother commenting, but I don't think I can restrain myself any longer.
You are trying way too hard. It seems that you're obsessed with dating, and have put women on this unreachable pedestal. Desperation is not sexy. And women aren't goddesses, they're people. You need to relate to girls in the same way you relate to guys, as friends. How do you find friends?-- You focus on your hobbies and interests, and you go to places and events where you will meet other people who share your interests. If you start developing friendships with women, relationships can happen much more naturally. The majority of women are looking for someone to bond with. Even if you just want sex (which is kind of lame, if that's the case), you first have to create a bond, otherwise she won't open up to the possibility of anything more. Even if you find that some women just want to be friend with you, you will still become more comfortable being around girls, and gain insight into how they think.
For one, women don't respond well to game-playing. Those who do are probably a little psycho, and they're not the ones you want to meet anyway. Most women can instantly tell if a guy is trying to "pick her up", and it's an instant turn-off, even if she would normally be attracted to the guy. If she's interested, you'll know it. You won't have to go through elaborate, structured rituals and analysis to make her like you, it will just happen. You just have to be yourself, and be friendly, but not overly attentive. That book you're reading?-- I've seen it at the bookstore, and it's scary. No girl I know would fall for that crap. What a gigantic waste of time.
The sad truth is, as long as you're desperate to find someone, you won't. Neediness is repulsive. People like people who are confident, interesting, and passionate about life. If you focus on developing your life/hobbies/career, and you're passionate about something (girls don't count), girls will find you attractive, and will want to be around you. So will everyone else. Of course, you should still make an effort to groom yourself well, and be polite and aware of how you come across socially, but otherwise, let your dynamic personality do the attracting for you, not some book. Just be yourself, stop trying so hard, and it will happen.
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