Alright so this girl that i have been working on thru a mix of some Ccocky funny, negs and tests and jsut natural game went crazy on me last night, Here is my story, i need some help too...

So i was getting ready to leave the next day to go home and Visit with some Family and Friends back home so i invited some friends over including this girl. I went out of my way to pick her up while i was picking up other ppl, well i get back and she is in a good mood, so i figure we've been talking for a couple of weeks so i figure its time to try something new... So i'm neggin' her about her shirt adn just being the cocky Alpha male of the Group, she was eating out of my hand... so i invite her into my studio to show her the "equipment", we we're talking and then i got the Kiss, after she kissed me she straight did a 180 Flip and started crying ( I knew instantly TRAP), So being quick witted i switched subjects , well she calmed down and explanied why she freaked (Because i was leaving (CLINGER!!!)) i told her it would be alright and that i would be back in a few weeks, and i wold call her, well after all that we go back and everything is fine , 15 mins later she is flagging me into my bedroom ,
u think thats were it goes, but no... she starts crying and ask for something that means a lot to me so that she can remember me by, i told her that i would be back and i would call her, but she was determined to get something so i gave her something that was replaceable, then things got back to where they we're suppose to be ( but still nothing)... So i gave some good LMR, and turned the lights on and checked some shit on my computer, (this pissed her off) she got up threw on some of her clothes and yell at me saying that all men are the same (only if your an AFC), so i told her that i wanted my things back if she was going to act like that, she stormed out with my stuff and txt me 20 mins later telling me that i messed up (Another TRAP, I didn't know i was being hunted) i told her if she really wanted to yell at me man up and call me, she called me and called me name after name and how i had become so cocky since i met her ( even though i hooked her with the Cocky funny routines) then she calls me a Player (THATS RIGHT, BEST RESPECT IT)i told her she was going to make me mad if she kept it up, and that i wouldn't talk to her again... This morning i wake up to 5 txt from her saying that she was sorry adn she still likes me and she wants to see me before i leave, so i gave her a small chance to meet me at the coffee shop and she didn't...

Now that i;m in this situation, i want my stuff back before she breaks it or gets rid of it,and i kinda want to see her again so what should i do

Lol dude you are too good to be postig in the newbie section!! I get the impression that you have more experience than me but if i was you i would wait and let her contact you. Taking your stuff is yet ANOTHER trap imo.

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MPUA in the making!

Dont hate the player, hate the game.

What i have got since joining the game:

KC: 7

This suprised me! Isn't she what Wedding Crashers call a "stage 5 clinger"?? haha

But I guess if you still want to see her (and obviously you want your stuff back) go visit her at her place. It will show her that you care enough to go to her and your stuff is bound to be there. She could not bring it to the coffee shop and then you are SOL. You also control the situation actually....if you don't like her attitude you can storm out any time you want. Next time just give her a tshirt that smells like you....aka the best going away present a guy can give a girl

PLAY HER! you know its a trap dude. I had a gf like this and she was a nightmare. Get your shit back and walk away to fight another day OR face being trapped by a neurotic freak - trust me I have been scared from a woman like this. I like bonitas comment tho - when you find a chick you do like and she is mmmmm lets say balanced give her one of your shirts! as the saying goes - Baby don't hate the player, hate the game!

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Yea stage 5 clinger is right,



You both have good ideas, i think that i;m going to just go over and get my stuff adn tell her to back off, and let her know that she messed up not me. The only problem i have is i live in a small college town and she could easily find me. DO you think she iwill turn around and make me look like the bad guy if we run into each other at the Bars/streets/class?

Is there any ammo that can get us apart but keep her happy enough not to ruin my game, because she is kinda bold and loud and will lure girls away and ruin me for doing nothing wrong

Dude my buddy knows a girl exactly like this:| he had the girl of his dreams screwed up with her, then had a chance to get her back and this ex of his comes up and starts talk to the dream girl, and chases her away!

Getting this girl off you is somethin you should really work hard at doing.
So I've got 2 ideas for you
1. We want what we cannot have, what we can have we dont really care for.
2. If shes all of a sudden like some other guy and still had good thoughts about you; shed be happy and wouldnt go out of her way.

Just dont let this broad ruin things for ya.