trying to keep a HB8 on the go as Im not going to see her for a couple of months...only contact is the phone. how often should i message her (i have been doing it like twice a week), should i throw in the occasional call. I f-closed her when we met 2 weeks ago. Try to take some messages in a sexual direction but dont get a huge response in that respect

thanks

Hi there,

The most important thing in seduction is to HAVE A GENUINE CONNECTION WITH THE GIRL!

Don't talk sexual nonse to her all the time, fuck her when you meet her again... she's not a whore to talk all the time on the phone with some guy he screwed and she really doesn't know.

So instead develop your relationship with her... find out what she's all about... her personality, her childhood, her dreams, her plans... connect to those by sharing your personal values and outlook on the world...

and you stand a far better change of keeping her on the go than just playing games on her .

Enjoy!

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Thanks Sorin I 100% agree,
i guess thats what got me to f-close in the first place. I was thinking in between serious messages i should drop some random funny ones..ie “I just totally ate (or any other verb) the craziest thing, and in a really weird way it made me think of you! "

or

(from the forum) "me: stop hb: stop what? Me: stop thinking about me and smiling. see i bet your doing it right now! "

and maybe give her a call once every few weeks

don't do what the community tells you

do what feels honest and genuine...

it has the best effect, trust me... just make a genuine compliment... don't play games... they will pick up on it...

tell her how you like her smile, how you can't wait to see her again... make a plan to see her again and where you'd like to take her...

find out where she'd like to go and what she'd like to do with you when she comes back... make a fantasy of the two of you... continue the relationship in this fantasy and she will look forward to come back to it ...

be a bit romantic without being needy

be her romantic hero and she'll fuck your brain outs for as long as you want

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agreed..however it seems that a great amount of pua material contradicts other material. For example, being romantic will probably come off as needy if its written through messages. There is a very fine line. I have not come accross much pua advice that stresses being romantic (most sarging is done through flirting; not being romantic). I think being romantic is best left for when there is arelationship; not when your sarging or only f-closed a girl randomly once.

Love to hear your your thoughts on this sorin

Depends what you understand by romantic ...

I don't understand by that giving her flowers before she deserves them, that is first dates, etc...

It doesn't mean give her too many sweet words before you fclosed her...

I just mean being interested in her inner beauty, and really listenting to her emotions, what she's all about, her dreams fantasies... it's somewhat romantic, but not needy, it shows you'll care... and at the same time be confident, don't accept bullshit, respect yourself....

there's a fine line you're right... i can show this in practise... in field work... it's hard to put into words

I think faking interest and playing hard to get can really put a girl off and actually make her disinterested in time as well..

It's fine if you start indirect but then make it clear that you are interested in her sexually and emotionally... this has a higher change of not getting in the friends zone..

trust me, i've done all the mistakes you guys are doing. i'm not talking from theory .
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agreed..however it seems that a great amount of pua material contradicts other material. For example, being romantic will probably come off as needy if its written through messages. There is a very fine line. I have not come accross much pua advice that stresses being romantic (most sarging is done through flirting; not being romantic). I think being romantic is best left for when there is arelationship; not when your sarging or only f-closed a girl randomly once.

Love to hear your your thoughts on this sorin Smile

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