Hey all

Ooops I accidently posted this on the introduce yourself page...

Had a thought and want your thoughts.

Here's the scenario - you're in a shop, lets say for point of example that it's a clothes shop and you clock a high scoring HB in the corner, grab a couple of Tee shirts of the rail of different styles and say you are wanting to buy your new fella a pressie but not sure which one is the coolest and you want her advice.

Being pretty new to the game am a little unsure as to the quality of the opener and how to transition on from this.

Any help would be amazing.

Tyree

Peace

This is what we call a situational opener... There are no pre scripted ways to go from there. However, since you have made contact... Turn away as to leave, snap your fingers, turn back "Since were already talking, I want to ask for a female opinion on sth"

From there, you can go into any routine you want.

I would pick out some girls clothes and tell her- hey, can you help me out? I'm shoping for my ________(sister, friend, whatever) and you have the same since of style and she does, but I only got like 10 mins and I got to go, can you help me pick something out real quick?

The thing with the gay opener is that the whole thing is a big lie and it might be hard to recover from.

If you use this approach and she picks out an outfit, wouldn't she expect you to buy it? Or is there a good way to use this opportunity to neg her suggestion and spark the conversation even further?

well, I guess you could neg her, but I would rather bring the item back next time I'm in the mall. I don't know if it's a good idea negging about something she was hesitant about doing in the first place. The time I did it I went off into a story of how my sisters a brat and how she always gets her way which got the HB laughing. I then asked her what she wanted to be when she was a kid and negged her about not remembering what she wanted to be. then I did the trust test. I told her she was cool and that we should hang out some time and gave her my phone and she put her number into it. I screwed up though and waited to long before calling her.

This'll work well I think - I totally see where you guy's are coming from about suggesting you are buying for a friend (since I dont have a sister), a birthday maybe...?

Tyree