when sarging in the field don't seem to have problems consistently the way I do online. However I'm recovering from a car accident so I can''t go out very much right now so I sarge and practice online a lot. At this point, I've got it worked out where I get initial responses probably 75% of the time at least but after that, a second response is about 3%!!! YES I KNOW THE MYSPACE METHOD! I don't use myspace or facebook for that matter, I use actual dating sites more. Any advice? -Lennon

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can u give us an example of ur messages. it sounds like u havent got enought interest built with her. maybe moving to fast. boring topics (ie things every other guy asks her....).

Yeah sure. To open it depends on the girl but what I use doesn't really matter because they usually respond but here are 2 examples:

me:Hey, I'm luring girls to my house using candy. Which do you prefer, snickers or skittles?

hb: lol skittles!

me: lol, good choice. so why in particular do you want to teach 2nd grade?

got no reply. heres another one:

me: are you wearing a wig?

hb: lol you sure know how to charm a woman! haha well I get extensions so they're fake but they're real if that makes any sense? I can't believe that haha most guys tell me my hair looks perfect.

me: lol, I'm not most guys but thats ok, it still looks nice. I'm not tackless, I'm just not into sucking up to girls just because they are attractive (wink)

again, no reply. I probably should have asked the second one a question but I didn't have much to go on and I figured if she responded that was an IOI but she didnt....

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ive been told from multiple girls that using acronyms like lol is a really bad move. Sounds weird, but lol comes off quite feminine. i dont know probably not the problem here but just a thought. Also where are you meeting these chicks and how are these messages being sent, on AIM, FB??

Well there you tried to convince the girl for something (Qualifying yourself too much too early), and also mentioned that shes attractive (bad move so early).
Here the girl most likely thinks that you are a weirdo, or shes just too busy.

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