I have a few problems, which I am hoping someone can help me with. I am going into my junior year of college and have yet to sleep with a girl. As you know, this is an enormous burden to carry on one's shoulders. In fact, only some people know about this as I tell some that I have had sex in the past and keep my sex life personal refusing to divulge details. My biggest problem, as most know, is that when I meet someone I come off as too nice/friendly, hence jumping immediately into friend zone. Every girl wants to be my best friend, which is horrible. I'm not the kind of guy who wants to sleep with hundreds of women, I just want to get laid and find someone to be in a relationship with. The main social life at my school is with the fraternities, which I happen to be a member of. These frat parties consist of tons of alcohol, loud music, drunk people, and dancing. Some guys simply walk up to a girl, grab her and start dancing. I do not have the confidence to do that and I also find that creepy. So my question to you is how can I pick up girls in frats? Do I use the "I'm a frat guy" to my advantage? Also, how do I pick up girls in my classes? Do I approach them after class and use one of your routines? Lastly, when I get to school in a couple of weeks there are going to be a ton of new freshmen girls, searching for the ultimate college experience, which they have based on movies and stories that they have heard. Plenty of older guys will be going for the freshmen, as I hope to do so, I just don't know how. And don't get me wrong, I do not want to take advantage of girls, I simply want to spit superior game and get laid, like most guys. Please please help me with this. My lack of self confidence around women and failure to get them has severely affected my lifestyle...it's fucking depressing the hell out of me...please help me out...I really appreciate it.

Swingman

the class one is easy....ask a question on what you are learning. or say hey i have met someone with worst hand writing then mine. chat it up a few times with her during class. and say if she has any questions she can im you or something..... this works great right before a test.

as for parties. yes coming up to a girl and just dancing is creepy. but if you go up to her and be like hey wanna dance she probably will say yes. if so..dance when the next song comes up be like yo you cant leave me hanging for this one. you are too good. or something. you can even pull off you look hot tonight. its appropriate at parties.

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im just a girl, youre just a boy...can i make it any more obvious.....cliche yes..but o so true

Picking up girls in class can be fun. There was another post earlier about this, and I thought I would share its advice.

To open, you can use something along the lines of
PUA: Have you had this teacher before?
HB: Yes (Now go into asking what he/she's like)
HB: No (Perhaps you can do some research on ratemyprofessor.com and talk to her about the rumors on there)

After, maybe you can introduce yourself and go to shake hands, but right before say "No we need a secret handshake." Make up something fun. This show's your a fun guy and its good kino. Once you show her, do it again for "practice".

Then when class starts rip a piece of paper out of your notebook and draw a tic-tac-toe board on it with a note saying "You First".

Just becareful, in college some girls are very studious and may not want to be distracted during class. Hope this helped though.

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