On myspace if you open a girl like this do you think it would be effective?

Me: You look like you seem to like kids quite a bit which is perfect for me. I have been looking for a girl like you to baby sit for me. :p

good or not? possible improvements?

sounds like u got kids and u want a babysitter. Im not sure the :p salvages it enough. you could have "...babysit me :p" but im not sure thats a good vibe either...

you could maybe try u wanna adopt lots of kids from poor countries and would u be up for the job, and then work on the dating the nanny angle

or maybe "perfect for me...how do feel about adoption angelina jolie style?"

I like the last one best because whilst the first sentence reads like hey we're a great match cos I like kids too. You're distracting them with the second part, which they're bound to have an opinion on and the first bit should get in the subconscious without too much attached suspicion.

You can use the kids bit as a cold read, but you gotta change the punchline for sure. I'll come back with with a good opener for you later on today

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Yeah i was going for kind of a push pull opener almost... i sent it to one girl already so ill tell you how it goes with that one... thanks for opting to send a better punchline ill be looking forward to it seeing as how its from matchbook method.

So I was thinking of the whole "cold read" opener and I think you should pick a diff cold read...one that EVERY girl will react positively to. For example...."strong personality" "sense of humor" "positive outlook on life" "rock the shit out of life" etc. So I'd say something more along the lines of this maybe...

Hey goofball! I glanced at your profile...I can smell drama and bullshit from a mile away but you genuinely look like you rock the shit out of life. That's pretty rare nowadays in this lazy ass country. I mean one of us it could handle, but two is pushing it! you don't mind if I ship you off to the moon do you?


It might need a few tweaks, like a wink or smiley face at the end, better phrasing, etc. But you get the idea.

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Please i need some help after an opinion opener (my friend's gf found a folder in the place of my friend and now shes furious about it bla bla ...do you think she has the right to ask about it)
then the girl responds me (huuh yeseees if he loves her he should get rid of it NOW what should i respond please it's aSHB 10+
thnx a lot

Dude be a man and men don't need to be babysat I've never tried online game but I suggest opening with a fake survey/research question and escalating it with qualifying and flirtatious humor.

Thats not how it works mate.

Anyway, I wouldn't use the babysit one as an opener... I would save it for later on, at least the "babysit me"-thing.

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Tell me if you have a HB9 wanting to baby sit you that your not gonna do it... exactly you know you would, almost all of us would... but ive been trying a series of different openers and so far opinions work pretty well.

I usually ask them how i should keep my hair for my fight coming up (i have a mohawk right now) which in turn makes them respond to the message and they check out my pictures.. definatley a plus, and then i usually find some way to neg them, and make them qualify themselves to me.

Perhaps you could suggest babysitting her?