Good article, but something sounded familiar about it, I never really dwelled on that though. Then later I remembered it was in an ebook I once read by John Alexander called "How to become an Alpha Male".

He says almost the exact same thing, except your version is a little more condensed. It even has the example about talking to the hot girl reading cosmo, being introvert and being social for the sake of being social.

Cheers for reminding me about this.

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Blakez

Yea Blakez's exactly right, whole article ripped off straight from Alexander's ebook.

Hollywoodinpa mate, have the guts to put a bloody reference in next time or at least cite his work, instead of claiming it all for yourself, kinda called 'online plagiarism' you twat.

People like you make me sick, be a MAN and own up for once.

Well said, this gives me direction to begin my long journey.

thats a great post. and it kinda reminds me of some sorta shady sales training i was forced to take when i was working at a commission based store, where they would tell you that you had to initiate conversation with every customer, regardless of whether they were "just browsing" or looked like they werent potential sales. i never really thought about it, but the year i worked there part time, i was way more social and confident in the rest of my life too. thanks for helping me realize the connection!

These rules are Great, except the first part of the second rule. The second part of the second rule doesn't have anything to do with the firs part.

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Reduce Approach Anxiety with "joye pete technique"

That is great stuff. I like the examples of women rejecting you - great stuff. I must not be doing enough approaches, but I never get anything negative, though I still suffer from some AA. Your post did remind me of the one time I did get a pretty negative response was when I was just easing my way into PUA; I used the DYD napkin trick at a restaurant in Vegas and the chic wrote "You're a douche" and had the waiter send it back. I cracked up laughing and even two years later, anytime I think about it I still laugh my ass off! I guess that's a good way to program yourself...

Thanks for the post! It helps alot.

I love this post - it's really cool just to have it broken down in to a format where you sit back and think "oh yeah...".

Dont think this is going to be the last time I read this thread.

thats amazing stuff

good stuff, but the reference to the original would have been appreciated

great post! Many people I have spoken with do the same thing by limiting their approaches to girls or only hot girls.

To this day, I love opening a mostly male mixed set or all male mixed set when I first walk into a club/bar. Lock in, build social proof (Leader of Men) and then pivot off of them to nearby sets. It is great for warming up and becoming more talkative, and is easier because they are disarmed very easily.

Talk to everyone, and you can talk to anyone.

Definitely great post. Cheers for sharing