Before anyone says "don't get your honey where you get your money" I probably wont be at this company for very long at all (started here this week) less than a year for sure.


Anyway, Im a noob to this "game" I get all the routines and stuff, but obviously I can do them in clubs or daygame (crap SPAM lol). But at work there hardly enough time to build anything so I dunno how to transition from normal talk to DHVing or playing games, so I'm SPAM C&Fing and some push pull but thats it and it make it 1 dimentional.

If you'll could give me the type of stuff that i could do and some e.g.'s i'll be very greatful or anything you think might help me.

There are a few girl I'd target, 2 in particular. Girl A seems like she likes me (came back to pick me up to go pub when everyone left, body language etc) but i think i've "pushed" her away a bit too much and it might become that she thinks she cant get me blah blah. But this is what is limiting for me, this shitty mind set where i dunno how to change thing to fit the situation (though understandable for my noobness). It just feels odd when they're your workmates.

Girl B gave a few shit tests...i think i handled it well but again I resorted to C&F and push-pull and too much of push where i feel she think I really dont like her.


Any advice for pua in the workplace like how I should act with other people in the office, building attaction in a "sensitive" place stuff like that would be so much of help especially for the specific girls i just mentioned.

stop pushing them away so much get there numbers and call when your not at aowrk then game them in the way you know how...its a little bit harder to game at work with sexual harrassment and such things ne more...im sure if a pua's game was tight it wouldnt be a problem at work but if your starting out in it just close the numbers and work on your off time away from work....but if your pushing them away stop pushing them and show some intrest or you will b put in the friend zone...if there not into you no more move on or it will end badly...thats the best advice i personally could give ya...if know one else gives you advice,hit up a pua that has a good rep and they prolly will be more than willing to help ya..ive had alot of pro's help me out when i had a question...

Thanks jamie

I was thinking of simply showing interest little by little next time i see her/them then i guess there will be some sexual tension which will precede the # close. I'd like to also play some games just to get into the mood and for trust etc but i guess that’s a bit backward as there is already interest there.

If there are any other examples or tips please go right again and help a brother

Oh btw is sexual harassment big in the US? Because I hear you guys mentioning it a lot which just doesnt happen much here in Europe, well in Britain anyway.

heya man,

Honestly I think the best advice would be to get situations happenin outside of work more often.

You mention that she came back ond got you to go to a Pub (girl A that is)


but not what happned fter that.

Honestly get them to agree to meetings outside of work and then you have the time to escalate fully in a decent environment.

I've said it before Ill say it again work just isn't the place to sarge time issues work issues...too many to make a good gaming environment.

AFC Adam,

i agree adam the work place has always scared me to do ne hittng on chics...but yes sexual harassment is bad in the us ne more woman cant take compliments and some guys take it to far...

Thanks man.

Girl A after coming back for me, we jsut hung out with the others, she had to go somewhere urgently but then called someone and extended her time there. She also kept comnig next to me to talk, laugh at lame jokes, other IOI's that i cant remember. After that night I was annoyed because I didnt try get her # which was a perfect time to do so.

But now im worried that i've left it too late (a week lol) but still i wanna get in there asap (shes going holiday in 2 weeks though). Also there could be a house party with our friends at work, so yeah. What would one suggest? I'm going to go ahead and get her away from the rest like you said, and get her # as I think theres way too much IOIs and I should be at it by now.

Girl B shit tested me, I think i passed, she also kept coming my way.

All in all, I think I have a good understanding as to where to go from here on in, theres just a good few (massive) things in my way.

bigjamie - That sucks, here there is a lot of injury claim etc which I think is fuelled mainly by the firm themselves... I'm so random.

Failed, grade fucking F.


The girl gave pretty much an invitation to "take" her and all I did was stand there and try to think of something to say. She was standing near me, the person she was "speaking" to left and she prob waited for me to make a move....I IOD big time I think, she probably thinks I dont like her now. I'm thinking of simply IOI'ing tomorrow (not too much) to keep it going and wait till day end and then make a move.

Adam/jamie you're right about the workplace, but I want to keep this one on.

Is it over? how would one go about getting my shit back on track.

Bump, need any advice on the current gay arse situation urgently.

Heya man after the Pm i'm taking a look as promised.

Honestly dude...Step back.

Take it as a lesson learnt. Leave this girl get another one.

The mentality of chasing is completely wrong esspecially when you add valuing her over a workplacement.

Seriously LJBF her use her as social proof to get other girls (ironically this is also the best way to get her if you really want her)

Then concentrate on upping your game and practicing elsewhere.

May not be the answer you wanted, but it's probably the best one for you.

AFC Adam,