I am missing something. I lack that extra something that makes girls want guys. For instance, there is this guy Bill who is about my age and which one of us is better looking is debatable(some of the girls say I'm the cutest, some say him) but ALL the girls are into HIM NOT ME. He's ALPHA naturally and I'm AFC. I'm soft or something. I'm not masculine enough. I'm too clean cut and proper. I mean, I want to attract high class women but Like Bill has all these tatoos and he talks all tough and shit, I don't have any tats and I speak properly. I think I LOOK too sweet, like a pretty boy or something but thats deceiving. I have handled myself in some of the worst neighborhoods in Philly, Miami and Detroit where people get killed just for being white. I've been to jail and I wasn't anyones bitch. I'm not bragging or anything, its just that I think I give off this vibe that I'm soft because I don't act or dress like a hard ass and I'm not a manly man but in reality I've been there and can hold my own. I'm not a little guy. I'm thin but 6'3" and pretty strong. I'm just wondering what I can do to give Bill a run for his money and all the other guys like him.

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"Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail"-Emerson

I've been asked if I'm gay. I get described as metrosexual regularly.

It's more about body language. I think the key is I don't care

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I'm a winner - I am going to win.

LOL, nah I don't seem gay at all, just not hard ass you know? I'm obviously a straight man, I'm just not some musclebound tatood hard ass that women seem to dig.

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"Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail"-Emerson

Neil Strauss talks about how Tom Cruise is a strong alpha male in The Game audio book. Tom is 5'5 not that pretty BUT, he knows he has very high social value. We obviously dont have the same social value but what we can learn from him as he says "if you have a strong understanding of what your identity is (protector of loved ones, leader of men and preselected by women) and how it relates to you you will have bridged that gap between being a chump and being a confident and strong male". A confident man will smile, stand taller, give off the "I am not needy - vibe" or because he is not bothered in any way by what people think DHV. Just smiling is an alpha male trait - just think of what a women is thinking when she sees a bloke with a blank look or a shitty look or a steely look - she is going to be intimidated. She knows that the guy smiling is not phased by anything which is exciting, comforting and masculine - very alpha male. Try building your inner game to go from LSE to HNWI mantality. I had a girl once say to me"there is nothing sexier than a man that doesnt need to be needed" - no muscles needed for that.

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when you are out, also try locking yourself in and having good posture leaning back and never lean in when your friend talks. let him lean in when YOU talk. also don't face your friend, let him face you while you are facing away. these make you appear more alpha.