be a mothafucking gangsta pimp, walk with a limp and talk to people like you the king yo

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hit that shit all night

lmao, made me laugh.

thx to Alphagame for massif post, gonna take sum distance from my friends for next couple months. starting uni in sept and i wanna be as top notch player as i can by then.

I have the same problem, the other night I had two girls all over me but then these three guys that we all knew and I lost everything, both girls left me for them and I didn't know what to do. But thanks to alphagame I think I can get over it, but it wasn't my friends who tore me down it was my family, I used to be the guy everyone would follow or copy, but now I'm just the guy in the background.

alphamale I know exactly what you are saying, however some of my friends are somewhat different. since ive started with the game I dont try to alpha them but somehow they ask me now what bar I want to go to etc.. though I am not a leader(dont know how to lead) yet.

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Deconstruct the group.

That would be my advice, and would probably solve the problem.

If what i'm understanding correctly, you have that alpha already in you and you can pu fine...but when with the alpha males with you (powerful friends, peers w/e) that disappears.

An alpha male is only big because he OWNS a group and he knows it...well, to eliminate the effects your feeling, you have to piece by piece break the group down. These "alpha males" are obviously in your social group...however big it maybe. Now, find the WEAK LINK...the member of the group (not yourself obviously) who has the least power compared with the others.

Make a point of getting to know the current him. He's your friend, but how well do you know his current state of mind? Choose that member and make yourself put on a "best friend proof". Show a genuine interest in him and be sure to spend some quality 'buddy' time with him.

Go out for a drink. One on one. Play pool. Whatever you guys do; except sarging of course.

Achieved?

Then, move up to the next rung in the ladder. The second from last guy in order of power.

Its a simple process, basically spend time with each friend, in ascending order of their place in the group. Quality time spending shit. The whole idea is to just re-establish not only your friendship but your equality. You know it...but our brains have to be reminded in the social situation.

In doing this, rung by rung, your putting yourself back on their level.

Lastly; the final rung of the ladder. Go out with the top Alpha in your group. Go out for a drink. You know, "mate fancy a drink tonight?" Easy; as you have with the rest.

You know what? You can spend time with this guy knowing you have improved the social proof of your social circle. You have the backing of the group. You've moved up the ladder in your mind.

You've reach the top of the pyramid.

Now when you go out with these guys...you'll have that mental memory of your "climbing the ladder" process. You'll feel equality with that top member of the group, will no longer have the self-conciousness - and hey - if you beat the guy at pool. You might just feel the clear best there.

Try it. Hope this is the solution buddy.

- Riot

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what do you think of what mystery said there?

Alphagame, I must I definitly agree with what you said. When I look back at my social group they always held me back.

I was always frustrated at not having a girlfriend but I excepted it and said it will happen when the time comes, using the excuse that none of my friends really had girlfriends. I always thought what would happen if one of us got a girlfriend or did something out of place, now I realize it they would just be ridiculed (we started to joke at how ugly the girl was or some BS). When it was us were hiding the fact that we were just dumb asses. I realize now that guys have complicated social groups not because they talk and fight a lot like girls, but because they don't talk a lot and aren't willing to fight for themselves unless they are somewhat alphamale.

When I look at all the good friends I have, I can amazingly narrow it down to 1-2 guys who don't hold me back but in check. And 0 that just let me do whatever. I don't blame them for it but it is just the way we grew up, as just average people interacting the way that doesn't give us a bad reputation but not a good one either.

When I look at the silent life I have lived I was happy. I had no enemies and no one hated me. But now it strikes me somewhat, of the people who didn't know me, no one really liked me either. People like excitement and change and I didn't offer that to people I didn't feel comfortable with.

Well, it is time to relies that alpha in me. The cost might be a bit heavy but it is a risk I am willing to take.

I definitely agree with solo sarging to build confidence and alpha-ness within. The advice to open male sets is gold. I unfortunately end up solo sarging more than group/wing due to scheduling and availability of my friends (most have married this year or earlier). When solo I usually run my first set as a HB5-6 two set or three set as soon as I get in the door. A throw away set just to get talkative. Immediately I will go to the bar and open the nearest all male or mostly male set. I address the Alpha with a man to man question. I have had great success by opening with opinion openers about a friends girl hitting on me and trying to kiss me.

"Bro, check this out, my buddy's girl has been calling me a shitload recently for no real reason. Last night at this house party I was at, she tried to kiss me. I ejected and left the party, and haven't talked to either of them since. What would you do?"

Always address them as equals, never be subservient. You aren't moving in on their turf, you are just an Alpha looking to get another Alphas opinion. Be sure to lock in at the bar quickly. As has been said, Alphas generally like to talk, and asking their opinion or advice usually gets them yammering for more than you thought you would get. Male sets are easy to open because there is no anxiety over them having to reject you. They don't function the same way women do when approached. Men generally are more open to it, just as we PUA's would be.

Happy hunting

1. GET BUFF
2. JOIN A SPORTS TEAM
3. DO MEDITATION
4. REPEAT NUMBER 3
5. REPEAT NUMBER 3

One of my buddies scores high enough with chicks to be considered the alpha male type of folk .. he literally bursts with so much confidence it's sometimes sickening. He just never stops drawing hotties in his manipulative game but other than that he appears cool and fun to hang out with. He would spot a chick at traffic light and open a chit chat out of the blue as if he knew her... he is the "perfect stranger" that makes you feel like you've known him for years before you're drawn to his kinky game; ladies are his bread and butter. He recommended an <a href="http://womenwant.me">Alpha Male</a> hypnosis video (womenwant.me) that acts as a catalyst IMO. I couldn't understand the basis behind his persona but now I get the meaning. Picking up women is a game, learn the rules and let manhood take over. You'll love it.

The way you think about yourself is the key to becoming and alpha male and subsequently not being intimidated by other alpha males.

Abraham Lincoln once said "Most folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be.". This, however, could changed to " Most folks are about as Alpha male as they make up their minds to be."

All the best advice on this thread so far has been about ways to train your mind into thinking that you are alpha male and so act that way all the time. However, i think one of the best starting points from a piece of advice I heard Style say,"act as if..."...

We all know what the alpha male of the group looks like and acts like, so when you feel unsure of yourself, "act as if" you are the alpha male, except you also have all your PUA knowledge to hand to make you even better than the alpha males you are acting as.

Eventually, if you keep "acting as if" you are the alpha male you will start to actually become the alpha male in the situations where you act as him.

To reinforce the idea that you are the alpha male, however, you should still try the exercises others have recommended to train your self into becoming alpha male!

Hope this helps,

HIKE

sticking feathers up your butt...


Get the inner game worked out.

Get the inner Alpha mind-set, metaprogram, or whatever you wish to refer to it as.

Feel free of any doubt, and if you find that insecure beta-voice creeping up on you, repeat the fucking mantra, dude : "Shati-fackop, Shati-fackop, Shati-fackop"

Believe in yourself because If you believe it strongly enough, others will start to see it to.
"Seeing is not believing, Believing is seeing." -Sean Stephenson.

You are at least the Random Alpha Male's equal, man, at least.
Yeah ?

Honestly, Fix your fucking inner game before going alpha. This quote completely changed my frame of mind about anyone people that shit on you all the time

If you ever wanted to ever be anything
They'll always be somebody that'll shoot down any dream
They'll always be haters, that's the way it is
Hater niggas marry hater bitches and have hater kids
But They Gonna Have To take my life before they take my drive
Cause when i was barely living thats what kept me alive
-Kanye west

Honestly people will always shit on you and belittle you, its their way of holding you back in life. They are all just jealous, if someone makes fun of your clothes, your car, your anything they are just jealous. If you let them affect you, you will end up in same place their in(AFC, Poor, Whatever) Never ever let anyone say your worthless, they don't know you. They can't tell you your value in life. And the only worthwhile opinion is your own, opinions will always by biased by some factor(Most bad opinions are based on jealousy) Just get it in your mind that people are only hating because they are jealous or insecure. Don't ever ever ever EVER let people affect you mentally, it will hold you back. Not giving a fuck what people think is a major factor in being alpha.

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I just wanna fuck bad bitches, for all the nights I never had bitches.

This is an internal problem, not external. I have a suggestion for you. Instead of being intimidated, start being appreciative and curious. imagine this guys past - the shit hes been through, the ups, the downs, the tough times, just imagine all of that. But through it all, hes put up with the bullshit and said 'fuck it, i'm gonna have fun tonight'.

And guess what? SO HAVE YOU BUDDY! So see yourself in his shoes, and be genuinely happy that this guy is still smiling, because he enhances your night by being here, you enhance his, its win win. You are all survivors on this earth, partying hard and deserve every bit of pleasure you allow yourselves to feel. So go hard buddy! This guy is working WITH you and not AGAINST you.

random tips: Arm around one of his friends and ask them - "listen, im looking at this guy and hes SOO COOL, like, in your opinion, what is it about this guy that makes him SO COOL? Three things! then go tell the guy what his friend said. Get to know them help them have a good night etc.