Yeah, I think one-itis is a major problem with her- I really care about her because I already know her pretty well, so I am trying too hard when I already know she likes me and obviously wants to be around me.

I was running decent game on her for a few days last week, but it just all sorta fell apart over the weekend after I mistakenly called her a vulgar name via text message the same day Dan went to her work.

One-itis is a disease

I'm gonna wait til this weekend to call her again . . . I'm 79% sure she will call me before then.

You need to calm the fuck down!
Just because u starting to win her back over dont go chasing her !!!
Let her come to you!! be the lamp and her the moth ....get it?
So no more contact remember unless she starts it and dont make any more plans with her leave it for tuesday ....play it cool or you will be asking me agian how do i fix this ???
Well its simple dont fuck it up from here
And when you texther keep it light and use plenty of cokcy and funny and keep you text messages shorter than hers and you be the one to end the contact and under no circumstances do you go see her agian

So just to repeat myself : no more contact until tuesday morning to confirm things for the concerte or unless she texts you first then you can reply after waiting no less than 30 minutes

She will contact you first trust me this will let you know you getting back in there
When she does wait a while before replying then text her some light cocky and funny shit and keep your text messages shorter than hers

and most importantly be the one to end the conversations

example) she text messages you sunday: so how was your weekend?
you: had a hectic weekend
her : cool , i did bla bla bla ...what did you get up to?
You: i fell off the face of the earth and it took me the whole weekend to get back ...did you know venus is the only planet that rotates clockwise
her : wow bla bla bla
You : well its past your bedtime little sister and i need my rest chat another time

I already know you like the last message now use it but understand a principal there at the end i did not say when i was gonna text her hence i create mystery and ''hard to get''

Dont fuck it up i wont help if you do !!!

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I am to be the next best thing in south africa

i promise i won't contact her til tuesday



i'm actually going to another concert tomorrow night with some friends (one is a 7 at least). wish me luck! i'll try out some tricks.

1 missed call so far

30 minute timer go!

Yo my brother from another mother keep the contact with her on the low please else you might make mistakes

so heres my advice : dont text her anymore or see her anymore!! until monday!! unless she contacts you and no matter what dont see her before the concert and dont make plans for the adventour date until after the concert!

She will contact you but you be a PUA now and only respnd to her second text message and keep your messages shorter and C&F till monday when you can get serious about the concert to make plans and heres one that will blow her away and right into your lap

always be the one to end the converstaions trust me it leaves her wanting more ....sweet

dont fuck this up you will regret it

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I am to be the next best thing in south africa

ok. if she doesn't call two times before monday night i'll take someone else

This thread is hilarious!

Man, you gotta get your act together! She's one chick when there's millions out there!

Dump her, and bed her mates!

I really cant believe that a post about ONE girl continue growing, come on dude...
I think that the subject here is finish, or she is attracted to you or not, find that out once and for all.


ICE

workin on it...lol... gotta love myspace

alright heres the deal, it sounds like you guys (maily wiggles) knows what you talking about.

ive been seeing this girl recently everythings been really cool im trying to work on my game you know so im trying to see what the fuck i did wrong. she wanted me so hard i was keeping my cool playing hard to get -gently-and at times i would neg to get her wanting me more.

i slept with her without really doing much, i was trying to keep mysterious because not being too experienced, i didnt want her ifnding out that i would bust a nut too early (it seems as if shes a hoe haha)

alright so anways, i hung out with her alot everything looked like it was going well, and we sort of got into this arguement the night before me and a bunch of friends were heading to this cottage.. she was invited but i never gave her the address and when i got back she was all pissed off avoiding my calls shit like that. Now im fucked, i have no idea what the deal is shes not answering when i call her and last time i txt her i asked why shes avoiding me i know im an idiot at times but now the ball is in her court and im not looking back

this girl sorta means something but my pua ways are begining now so i could care less.. i just wanna know, how bad did i fuck shit up? and is there anything i can do to fix it up? wiggles my man help me out here

oooooh whaaat

all these dudes i read about you guys in the books. i KNOW you guys know how to deal with this situation. i finished the game by neil strauss, and currently am working on the layguide which is an interesting book. plz help me out your wisdom is Much needed

-my spider sense is tingling
hahaa

Wow dude, that is a big red flag for me... just because you make one mistake she react in that way??
Tell us more info, like how many time were you dating, if she is your girlfriend??
I never had this kind of experience, but if you have something serious between you before this "situation", you should confront her, and talk to her calm in person, nothing of mails or text messages.
Tell me how things worked. Luck


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dear mr. wiggles,

i was so excited that i used the text message thing that was in another thread to be CF+NEG her. i think it went well:

me: "STOP!!!"
her: "wat"
me: "stop thinking about me and smiling!"
her: "aww thats sweet howd ya know"
me: "ur always thinkin about me sis, but its past your bedtime now and i have grown up stuff to do"



END. good yes?

alright well, theres one thing i didnt mention and it was that when i returned from the cottage she informed me that one of her close friends had got in a car accident and passed away. shes not my girlfriend but i guess you could say we were seeing each other she used to text me almost everyday and definately call me up at night see whats going on stuff like that. we had a few dates, and we were prob hanging out for about a month and a half id say.

since her friend passed, i didnt really try to make plans just called her once in a while see how she was doing she was always sounding like she was sad and she would make the calls short telling me she;ll call back but most of the time not calling back you know what i mean? anyways, i gave her space thinking that she'd mourn for a bit but im starting to think that she just doesnt really want me anymore..

im thinking,, should i have no contact with her until she tries to call back? but at the same time i have my doubts that she will even call.. my backup plan is driving to her house one day (during the day when shes home alone) and talk to her in person.. i have no idea cuz she avoided my phone call a few days ago and last txt i got from her was the 25th.. and havent heard from her since.
anwywas ill keep you guys updated

Everything is going as planned so far. Yes, I am obsessing over one girl, but I still have fun with other girl friends and I don't talk to anyone IRL about my one-itis, so you guys are the only people that see my thoughts.

Here's the plan for the concert night (tuesday):



I will call her to confirm where we will meet. She has told me before that she is 100% going and that she took off work and she was looking forward to going, so she really shouldn't ditch me. If she does... I have no backup... maybe my ex-gf, but i dont think i wanna go that route.

Anyway... once the time to meet gets closer I will call her and tell her this:

"It totally slipped my mind, but I have to feed my aunt's horses today. Usually Dan or C goes with me because it's a two person job... Do you think you can help before we go? It won't take long and we can leave from there."

My aunt's house (as i've explained in previous posts) is on a lake with a lot of property. In order to feed the horses, we will have to ride four-wheelers down a gravel road for a few minutes until we reach a trail which leads to a huge beautiful field with four horses in it. When we walk up to the horses they all start running full speed towards us because they are freakin hungry! After we feed them, she'll want to explore more of the trails, etc,..there are three places that i want to take her that each have their own spectacular views. She will ride the shitty blue four-wheeler. We will need to back it out of the garage after we start it, so while she's sitting on it, I'll sit behind her (kino- my nuts on her back) and back it out with her. We will ride on seperate four-wheelers to show her that I am independant and I will leave her ass behind if she doesn't keep up.

Last time I took another girl to do this (about a week ago lol) she totally fell in love with me (i thinK) and she keeps asking me when we're going back to feed the horses.

Anyway, I'll have all of that at my disposal along with a huge empty house with no one around for miles. I'd like to full-close there if she makes a move, but we still have a concert to go to afterwards! Any more suggestions for the farm adventure?


~Time Distortion~ (going more than 1 completely different place in one day will make it seem like we've been together a lot longer!)

On the way to the concert I'll play some of my crazy music and I'll run the cube on her and use that as a tool to tell her how fucked up her life is with her ex-boyfriend and that she has a low self-esteem and needs to do whats best for herself. Yeah- it doesn't matter what she draws-- I can bullshit my way through it and tell her what I want her to hear. maybe i'll even do the cube on her while we're watching the horses eat....hmm.

At the concert I'm going to talk to a lot of other people and make her have to work to keep my attention on her. I might introduce her to some girls as my sister also (for neg+competition for her). Then maybe i'll even try to pick up other girls...

I will not mention anything about either of our ex's. They always seem to come up in our conversations...

There is one song the band will play that will make her want to touch/hug me. If everything goes as planned, it will happen (hopefully it will happen before now lol). But if it hasn't happened yet--- This is the part where I wanna try that animal attraction biting the neck bullshit (but i gotta read up on that some more) then work up to the kiss from there.

Should I tell her that there's a toy at my aunt's house that I want to show her after the concert if everything is going well? Then at my aunt's house i'll use time-constraint and tell her that i have to wake up early for work the next morning and we can only play with my cousin's spy gun thing for a few minutes.

any other tips/suggestions please?! i'm freakin out 3 days to go!