Users…
We use people for specific wants, needs. You have Friends each friend a specific use
Think about this:
One Friend lets you borrow money whenever you want
One friend the super geek is strictly for playing video games chatting without about the latest technologies.
One Friend is a the person who always has the homework you purposely neglected to do because you know he’s done it and he’ll let copy
Another friend may be a good with the ladies and he’ll get you women
Then we have girlfriends/friends with benefits because they give us sex and sometimes offer comfort.

Now lets suppose these things change
What if the friend you borrow money from all of a sudden tells you “No you can’t borrow any more money you’ll be angry and wouldn’t want anything more to do with him.
Or what if your super geeky buddy all of a sudden wants to hang out at the club with you and the women you hang with, would you really want to take him with you he’ll probably embarrass you with his lack of social skills.
What if the guy with the homework suddenly started trying to charge you money to copy his homework would you start having disdain for him probably so.
What if the ladies man stopped sharing his women he wouldn’t be quite so cool then.
What if your girlfriend wanted to stop having sex you'd drop her at the speed of light


Users can actually be looked at as intelligent people who do things to make their lives easier. You can look at the moral rights and wrongs but that’s all irrelevant it’s just the way of things the world is governed using other countries to serve specific benefits and need when something becomes useless its disposed of by means of war

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Thanks for that insightful post, Reo. It's kinda like pointing out the big elephant in the room that everyone tries to ignore.

When people share benefits with each other like that, it's great, but when one person is just being a "user" or a "value-taker" without genuine appreciation and without giving love to their friends for their humanity by default, they become disillusioned.

You are not your money. You are not your technology. You are not your homework. You are not your pickup skills. You're the all-singing, all-dancing crap of the world.

i prefer to only do this with people who offer a service, rather barter our serives.

I design webpages, affiliate marketing stuff, I take my car to him for certain things I can't service, like alignments

I don't know if it's I don't like using people or if it's a don't like to rely on people.

I think I don't like relying on people because there is that uncertainy that they will flake.

Or maybe I use all my friends for moral support in becoming a better person

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I agree with Chief and his rather subtle reply. In my honest opinion, FRIENDS

would help their geeky ass friend out with social acceptance

would not borrow money they could not pay back

would not expect his "friend" to sustain his grades

would not expect a PIMP for a "friend"

And a GIRLFRIEND....needs more than a DICK

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Whoah, I just thought about almost the same thing this morning!

I was thinking more like if every man on this planet would suddenly be PUA's... They all would change so fast that they couldn't be friends with each other anymore.


Its like if the geek would want to become a PUA suddenly and would like to join you and your girls... You wouldn't let him anyway, so now hes disappointed in you and might not be your friend so much anymore.


If everyone would be PUA... It would be fucked up !!!! Yay.

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Sounds like an episode of "the OC".
Dont turn into a woman trying to figure them out.

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