Now, I would normally not condone Online Game because I think it's a cop out from giving into your Approach Anxiety (not approaching in real life hinders your masculine development), but this facebook conversation is between me and a girl I met IN REAL LIFE, mmkay?

We were at a party and someone took our picture when we were smoking out in the patio. All you non-PMZ people now have the opportunity to see what I look like. (Not anymore, though. Sorry.)

If anyone can break down what I did in the conversation they get a gold star.

Chief:
did u see that pic M tagged of u and me
that pic is so kickass
im thinking of making it my profile pic cuz im so awesome

HB:
dude yeah i saw it
the first thing i thought was:
"damn we look bad ass."
yeah you should make it ur profile pic!

Chief:
ill do it if you do it =P

HB:
noo
then we'd have the same profile pic and thats just confusing

Chief:
lmao i know
thats why it'll be awesome
ppl will be like WTF and we'll be like HA! WE CONFUSED YOU WHILE LOOKING COMPLETELY BADASS

HB:
lolol
i love our badass-ness but i don't wanna change my profile pic yet. id also be taking away from ur uniqueness if it was my pic too
and my phone is reconnected again!
so send me ur numberr

Chief:
HB dearie,
You will never be able to take away from my uniqueness.
I have two questions for you.
1. Do you drive and have a car?
2. What is the capital of Louisiana? (Hint: it's not New Orleans)

HB:
thats true
no not until august 28th, i will be getting a car then too. and baton rouge. but i cheated... wikipedia is my friend.

Chief:
Baton Rouge is correct. You may have cheated but the only thing that matters is that you got the results.
You were also honest about it! Very nice. You have totally just earned my phone number XD
XXX-XXX-XXXX
Let's kick it.

Here's the picture I was talking about in the beginning of the convo:
Sorry, fellas. I removed this picture because I realized that the internet isn't exactly the safest thing in the world lol.

Firsly chief, i am digging that look! its just wow :O
Now for my gold star (what can i cash it for? )
Firstly, she was rejecting and you simply laughed it off showing it didnt bother you, alpha behaviour.


You refered to her by name, thats very good comfort building. "dearie" is suggesting a romantic connection between you to which has been going on, sorta an old married couple name
You totally ignored her request for her number, instead giving two questions, hoops. Complience test.
She answered, then u told her she earned it giving the number more value than if you had just haned it out. The "only thing that matters is you got results" is very clever, i dont quite know what it is but is it part of a greater NLP pattern to avoide LMR?


Do i get my gold star now haha.

/madals

aww Chief you look so cute with that baby face

Come over here so I can pinch your cheeks

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Not a PUA just a girl offering my opinions/advice

pfft.

imo you did a lot that i liked.

1. You reference the pic that 'we' are in, but only mention how badass 'you' are. You dont like it because she is in it, but because you ROCK. She totally bit on this one imo as well. gj
2. you did handle her rejection of the dual facebook pic well. I think that was your weakest request, the 'ill do it if you do' bit.. but you recovered well.
3. You also shut her down well. 'you cant take my uniqueness away' - very nice neg.
4. dearie thing too.. nice, but not a highlight.
5. making her fight to demonstrate value was good to. The car one is real, the other is a silly question. This keeps the mood right, i liked this bit.
6. you give her approval on her answers, so she is seeking your approval in the questionbit. doubly nice.

this is probably an ancient thread, but still i enjoyed it. GJ chief!

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seeing as this thread's been resurrected, I feel obliged to say just how perfect that dialogue looked!
well done chief. and thanks, I learnt a lot there