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| veryEnglish87 | PostPosted: Fri Jun 01, 2007 12:22 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Fri Apr 13, 2007 4:01 pm Posts: 80 Location: London | | I have been on one date with this girl, we arraned another one over e-mail. Fine, then she e-mailed me this message last night:
call me AROUND 6PM OK ON MY MOBLIE
BYE
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She sent this at 17:41 (so only around 20 minutes before she wanted me to call her). By chance I checked my e-mails but I didn't know what to do. There was no reason to call other than to say hi and I didn't like being told to call. I decided not to call as I could easily have missed the e-mail, I wanted to seem like I had better things to do than check my e-mail, and because there was no reason she couldn't call me if she wanted to chat. Did I do the right thing?
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| narcist | PostPosted: Fri Jun 01, 2007 1:39 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Fri Jan 12, 2007 8:44 pm Posts: 112 Location: Naples, Florida | | Ye u did the right thing, u had a 20 min period to call, if u would have called it would have refelected that ur on ur computer all day and u don't have a intresting life not a turn on, and also don't let her set the rules thats ur job, so act like u got the email way later and call her tmmrw and say hey I got ur email srry im usualy realy bussy and don't check my email much, than tell her u want to take her out where and when, all on ur own stakes _________________ I am bound to add that the excess in too little has ever proved in me more dangerous than the excess in too much; the last may cause indigestion, but the first causes death.
-Giacomo Casanova
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| Methuselah | PostPosted: Fri Jun 01, 2007 2:56 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Sat Dec 30, 2006 4:58 am Posts: 858 Website: http://www.PUALifestyle.com AOL: DilutedAutonomy Location: Earth | | yea, your fine. responding so quickly would have made you look like her lapdog. never respond when they ask you to, always on your time.
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| Sovnarkom | PostPosted: Fri Jun 01, 2007 4:29 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Tue Apr 17, 2007 4:01 am Posts: 159 Location: Mexico D.F. | | Yeah Mate, It was Ok remember This she Is Your Chik U Are not hsi Boy, ok
That Means that U call The shots. _________________ Que le digo a la muerte, tantas veces llamada a mi lado,
que al cabo se ha vuelto mi hermana?
-"I Can Bend Your Mind"- Sovnarkom
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| Romeo7 | PostPosted: Sat Jun 02, 2007 12:29 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot |  | Joined: Fri Feb 23, 2007 6:32 am Posts: 407 Location: California | | Yup... you did the right thing
It's important to keep in mind that it's YOU who makes the calls, you live in YOUR reality and so does she.
so arrange things to YOUR time
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| Reset | PostPosted: Sat Jun 02, 2007 4:30 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sat Apr 28, 2007 4:25 pm Posts: 33 | | You definitely did the right thing. Even if you had received the email earlier you should have done the same thing. Call her the next day though or whenever you like. In fact don't even mention the email. If she does I would consider it an IOI. Make small talk and have a plan ready to ask her out. Be specific not just "would you like to go out with me sometime?". Show her that you have a strong frame.That will only make her want you more
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