I suppose it's time to make an entrance of some kind. Hello all my name is Qlass, I've only very recently completed reading The Game, as well as done some research on various other Master PUAs (both established and self-proclaimed), from David DeAngelo to Mystery, to Ross Jeffries to Style, to Vin Dicarlo and back - and all of their methods.

I have been an AFC for the past 8 years, because in 8 years there have been four failed attempts at getting a girl. At some point I have to realize that what I'm doing isn't working, and so I'll need help.

The date has been set for my first ever night to sarge. I was hoping to get some advice/guidance from people who remember their first attempts, and any sticking points they might have had. As can be expected my main problem is Approach Anxiety, and coming up with openers.

I plan to do this in stages - first thing I want to master is the approach, and smashing approach anxiety. Next will be things like DHV, isolating, and finally closing. But for now, I will take this in baby steps.

I'm looking forward to the advice and stories that both seasoned and newbie PUAs might have for me. It's good to finally be here.

Q.

I love your attitude, bro! You really should take baby steps instead of trying to do everyhting at once!

"Rules of the game" is a great newb book from Neil, but it's kinda simple stuff imo (but a good book if you're having troubles motivating yourself!)

I myself never had a such thing as a first sarge. I mean, my game slowly developed itself. I read everything I could get my hands on, and slowly recreating myself accordingly. So when it came to my first sarge (Three weeks in Brighton to learn more english..) at this disco, it wasn't that hard.

My protip: if you act like it's ok - it's okay. If you think it's okay to start talking to someone, and you deeply believe it - they will accept it. Wussies who don't like themselves don't really think it's normal for them to talk to women, therfore results.

Love to hear more from you, and welcome =)

Hey man,

Thanks for the warm welcome, it really means a lot! Kind of nervous; I'm going to be going out with a friend of mine and she's inviting a bunch of her friends who work with her at the gym - so a few pretty girls and a lot of buff personal trainer AMOGs will definitely be around. I wonder how to handle them. I've also been working out for the past year and a half, but clearly I'll have to rely on something more to demonstrate higher value.

Q.