hey guys

guys hit on my girlfriend cuz she is very pretty. how do i stop it

i feel like they hit on my girlfriend cuz they disrespect me. im trying to be myself arround her and love her, and for example at a party im just watching how everyone just does everything like dancing and stuff and helping each other with the music. i just love to be with my girlfriend, nothing more.
when we talk to someone im no trying to make a fight just try to be liked and im nice to everyone but i feel like they see me as beta and they wannna steal my girlfriend. so after im nice and i see that they try to hit on my girl, I try to avoid them.
and tell my gf look i think he likes ya and my gf goes like yeh i noticed it too (girls are better at picking up those signals than most men)

its not the first time and i am afraid my girlfriend will start looking at me as beta too

lately she told me she was gonna move to a big city and im like well i think i am gonna lose you
and she goes like well could be.. you must fight for me or else im gone (she's the price)
and i totally got this cold heartbroken feeling

when she was with her friends i heard her talking about a guy who sent her pictures of his body
he does fitness, and he was obviously hitting on her

if i was my girlfriend i would not have accepted his photos, i would let him know he doesnt stand a chance
also i would not talk to many guys, why would i if i had a boyfriend.
or just be clear to them when they flirt that i have a boyfriend

but my girlfriend doesnt do that, i doubt if she even tells her friends she has a relationship with me

also when im seeing other girls i talk only about my girlfriend, i dont need another girl, my girl is very pretty!

but she is different :s she doesnt think the same about me. can i flip this arround?

and i think so yes, but how do i do this?
i need tips

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Dude, yes you have to fight for your girl some. However, you haven't in the past and she knows this. Her allowing guys to flirt with her and not giving them the "I have a boyfriend" objection is her way of saying I'm available. She might presently be with you, but she's looking to leave.

You're going to have to pull a 180 on your attitude or she's gone. You're the prize, and yes she deserves to be protected. I go out with gorgeous women too and they get hit on while we're out. I take care of it if she doesn't by nicely telling him to leave us alone, or AMOGing him.

Having this protector of loved ones trait is something that women are attracted to. They like a leader and someone that takes care of his own. You mentioned you avoid the confrontation, that's pleasant of you, but it's not going to keep you in your arms.

That's great that you talk about her to other women, and are setting the example but she doesn't appear to be getting the hint does she?

I don't mean to be an ass here, and I don't know that this can be saved. All I can tell you is what to do different next time. Like show you are desirable to other women, you be the prize, and being generally non-needy. You can start working on these things now but it sounds like she's already looking.

GOOD LUCK!!!

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

my ex-girlfriend eventually started seeing me as beta cause I stopped gaming her and started trying to make her happy. Lesson learned. She didn't want me to be rude to her friends even when they were hitting on her, BULLSHIT. Anyway, if I would have taken those opportunities to protect maybe she wouldn't have cheated on me when she moved to a bigger city with one of those drunk cluckin punk rockers that practically live at her new house. Luckily we aren't together anymore, she was emotionally crazy.

Oh yeah, one time I ended up just pushing this cat because he was obviously talking to her in a suggestive way. No harm done, he didn't fight me or anything cause he knew what he was doing with her, and he's a fighter too, he pulled a knife on her last boyfriend. If you and her don't have any other problems, protect what's yours. You have the right.

Next time this happens, experiment. Hit on him if it's what you need to do to show you're not an ass but you'll protect you're relationship with your girl.

amoging is the way, the minute or second he opens his mouth, you HAVE to put a stop to it.

>to your GF:HEY MAMI,BABE,SWEETIE.
>you: dude , dont you have a girlfriend to be with?
{if he says yes then simply ask "how many do you want?"}
{if he says no then you are going to have to take this risk im about to mention.

{if he says no, ask him .dude why not? you look like you can land any hottie out there.
look shes perfect for you. {point to your girlfriend}

NOW IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND RESPECTS YOU AND LOVES YOU LIKE SHE SHOULD SHE HAVE A NEGATIVE REACTION LIKE "NO EWW WTF.

IF SHE IS A FUCKING SLUT SHE WOULD BE LIKE YOU KNOW WHAT? YOU'RE RIGHT, I LIKE THIS GUY. AND BAM YOU LOSE YOUR GF. MAKE SURE YOU'RE THE FUCKING MAN IN THE RELATIONSHIP. YOU HAVE THE SAUSAGE TO PROTECT HER. IF THE GUY ACTS MINORLY RUDE AND WANTS TO FIGHT YOU. RUB YOUR SHOULDER TO YOUR GF, SHE SHOULD HOLD YOU BECAUSE GIRLS DONT LIKE VIOLENCE. AND ITS VERY AFC TO FIGHT FIST OVER A GIRL. SHE SHOULD HOLD YOU WHEN YOU RUB AGAINST HER AND SHE SHOULD TELL YOU TO IGNORE HIM AND LEAVE.
if not. go to youtube and watch a few self defence moves and muay thai . i know how to fight so im good too, lol

You are never going to be able to stop guys from hitting on your girl. Just look at how many members here have no qualms in stealing girls from other guys. So you are always going to have to put up with that

As far as saving your relationship. Kill it. You seem to only want to keep her for her looks and she is on the way out anyway. So there is no point in saving the relationship. Besides you need to get rid of your AFC and work on your alpha side more. Once you dump your current girl friend go out and make a couple of friends with hot girls and go out and date a bunch of hot girls. And if you find one you like continue to date her and keep the other ones around as acquaintances or even as friends. That way your next girl will see you as some other girls want and will want to keep you. And your alpha side will help keep her interested and make you appealing to your female friends as well.

hi guys
thanx for your replies, however im still worried

i went out this night alone, i mean totally alone. no friends, no girlfriend.
It was hard at first but i feel so much more social now, i talked to like everyone at a certain point.

i needed to head back home and i had 2 fat chicks cycling home with me, i was just practicing, so i dont care them being fat.

anyway on our way home while i was cycling with the 2 fat chicks we came across 4 ladies and an amog, I met one of the ladies earlier this night
she was like hey you, and i was like heey and she went like look i lost a piece of my cellphone and i was like let me see, damn thats fucked up

the amog (i think he was getting a lil jealous) said yeh if your a man you go cycling back to find that piece for that lovely lady. i was like no man, he became like pushing me like you gotta do this.
i went like, dude, why dont you go back and find that piece for her

im not sure what happened really from there on, but i sure couldnt give a fuck and that was my attitude, i was very relaxed too
and he went like dont you challenge me, i was like alright i go bye and i said all the girls goodbye one by one
he went like yeh go, i was like im going im going while i was driving slowly away from them
he was like get away from me ! hurry up!
i was like, dude im so fkn afraid of you in a very relaxed tone while watching him right in the eyes
he was like go!
i was like look im going, told you i was afraid of you

he came next to me ( i was on a bicycle and he was walking) i didnt look him into the eyes but i did cycle, also i was tired i didnt wanna go faster.
then i saw in the corner of my eye he was about to hit me, i blocked him and was like omg in my mind and got afraid. in the meantime right before he hit me some girls screamed his name and said no no !
i didnt care about those girls nor what they would think of me, i still had my modellooking girlfriend
so i cycled away as fast as possible he came running after me, i was really cycling as fast as i could cuz i got scared a lil
when i looked behind he was like 20 foot behind me and slowing down and because of the adrenaline i sweared at him whatever i could think off
then i realized i missed my turn, so i had to go back. but i took another road.
he saw me taking that road and coming back to him and the girls (which was not really my intention), he came running after me again!
i turned as fast as i could and cycled away from him again a.f.a.p.
then i went cursing again; come here you fag! you pussy, ill stop when you die
and then i went the long way home

i didnt know them cuz it was another town, but i sure dont wanna go through this again :s
i have never fought, only when i was in primary school once or twice

it might suprise yall but i was being alpha tonight, i was on my own being social in a new environment, i did pretty well and even got 2 chicks to ride home with me
even to the point where i met an amog with 4 ladies, i was on my way to steal one from them which wasnt really my intention, i just wanted to be liked by unknown girls
I was probably a threat for the amog, thats why he tried to make me beta by trying to send me out looking for that girl's piece of her cellphone
i flipped it by first kinda ignoring it and saying no man and when he pushed i went like why dont you go find that piece for her
he wanted me to leave, and i was about to. but he wanted to fight me so i wouldnt look more alpha than him and he would lose the girls later that night
i didnt wanna fight, he was older than me and he seemed much fatter. i think it was a farmer with strong arms
anyhow i really wasnt into fighting, im 6.5 foot tall and my body is athletic. as far as i know im quite strong but ive never actually fought with this body.
only when i was a lot younger. (11 or something, im 19 now)

what do yall think, how can i become more alpha i mean also look more alpha
i mean: if i was that guy, and some kind of arnold schwarzenegger would come and try to take my girls i would be thinking twice before i would make a comment
but he had no problem hitting me i mean, that says something about you right; i dont look alpha
Someone told me once that if you practice a martial art like aikido, that you would have a more relaxed alpha body language and that people dont wanna fight with you cuz you have this psychological advantage
its not really about the fighting, more about the relaxed alpha body language.

i dont know tho, i really want to know if some of you guys can confirm this. and also if some of you guys have tips for me, cuz otherwise i might end up in a trash can

see you guys later and i hope ill become a lot more alpha soon

peace!

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Failure was never an option


Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies

dude!
that shit rox! i give you credits for that, i mean respect on this forum :p
no seriously im VERY impressed bu this muay thai and i really am gonna practice it!!
i really hate some people right now, i mean i see that always in my life when i tried to have fun someone else was saying i shouldnt do that just to verify their alpha status. I really hate some people, and when i get to see a dumbass brainless amog defying me again im gonna jump up to him and throw my knee into his lower jaw
really im in that state

thank you so much for introducing me to muay thai

Peace

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Failure was never an option


Because girls don't like sex.. Yeah RIGHT!
Why else do you think girls have P*ssies