Tonight I went all out. Talked to a one set for a warm up, all I got was conversation that lasted a while, then I left. Then I was calling someone and saw a 1 set HB9 with tears in her eyes. I chatted/cheered her up for a while, did all the normal routines and eventually got a Kiss close which was really good. We danced and talked for about and hour . Then I introduced her to my friends (even the friend im working on, which was awesome), but it turns out she lost her friend. I did the whole "i can only offer you good company thing" but added " I have a spare room if you want it". She basically ignored it, then she talked to her old friend and I just started to get bored. I also implied for her number, but she wouldnt give it. At that stage I started rejecting her, and eventually left her.

Turns out she was only talking to him to get $50 for a taxi home. I was chatting up other girls, then was basically ready for home. I was sitting down and she came back up to me. I was very resistant and hit her with heaps of negs. She eventaully asked for my number and basically begged for a kiss at the end. All ended well, but I have a couple of questions.

1) How could I have got her back to my place? The last kiss was good. I knew she was going, so eventually pulled away at the end telling her "Thats all you get for tonight". Reglardless, the prior events indicated that she wasn't interested in anything more that night. Any tips on getting her to comply with coming back with me?

2) What should I do tomorrow? I don't have much experience in calling girls back the next day. I'm thinking the whole: "Call her for an opinion but dont ask her out" thing will work initially, then call her the next day for something fun, other than dinner or a movie. I'm not too bad with club game, but dating is out of my experience, so any tips regarding the call tomorrow, or setting up the first date would be awesome. Where is a good first date place too?

Cheers.

K in my opinion, since she shut u down and ignored you the first time, then went back to u after she had no way home and couldnt scam money for a cab, it sounds like she was just using u at the end to hope u might offer your room again.
I think u did the right thing by saying "thats all your getting"

To answer your questions:
1)I find the easiest way to get girls back is to invite them as a pair or a group. Like if you have a buddy u live with, or is willing to chill at your house, offer the whole set, of 2 girls to come over for another drink, or to play pool or something. Even though they know whats probably going on, it makes it seem alot more innocent and guilt free, and there being with their friend is more comforting. Then when u get them home, separate, and close.

2)I never call. Text her to build more comfort. And always keep first dates short and sweet. You want one short fun experience, there is less room for mistakes. Dinner and a movie is the worst thing ever. Start with something casual. Tell her you need her help walking your dog, and grab ice cream on the way. Stuff like that, just make sure u build atttraction, but use compliance tests too so u dont overdo it.

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She did get the $50 from him, and then she came back and found me, all was positive from there on.

Anyway, I'm kind of debating weather to call her or text her at the moment. Regardless, ice skating came up last night and I was going to ask her there for a couple hours, since I've never been.

Thanks for the advice