Ok so tonight I was just having fun with my buddies no intention of picking up. I ended up with a few of my friends at my buddies place where he his GF her 2 friends and thier BFs were there. So I was just partying playing games, and they guys were cool so i was just getting druink. 2 of the 3 girls displayed obvious interest from the beginnin but by the end of the night i was talking to one of the girls boy friends and she got all " excuse me Im talkin to my boyfriend" i just wanted to be cruel or slap her or some shit but i went noob and apologized and her friend even entered in. And in a previous conversation where I was not attepting to pick up, just making friendly talk with a girl where she stopped me mid sentance, to tell me she had a boyfriend...also really pissed me off... Any idea of a way to neutralize the situation>? when im not in pickup mode i get really angry at things like this and make dumb mistakes and end up looking like an ass...=-(

First of all, getting drunk was your first mistake. Also please correct me if I am wrong and you only had a few drinks, but if you went the whole 9 yards then there is your problem. Drinking just makes your PUA game a lot more sloppy and the women will pre-think that your that drunk that everyone hates etc. So either reduce the amount you drink or just stop drinking in general.

Second of all, don't let the women get to you when they make smart remarks. It's not that they're trying to be a bitch, (or they might of been depending on how much of an ass you were acting like) its just she might of said it and you took it the wrong way. So don't let small shit like that get to you next time.

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Ok, i had a little bit of trouble understanding your post, but if i am correct, you are saying you don't like it when women just assume your picking them up, even if you are not. Some people have "Unstable" high self esteem. a good example of this would be a school yard bully. he obv. has high self esteem, i mean, how could u be so outgoing as to attack others, and be shy.... but unlike regular self esteem, this needs to be constantly maintained or they suffer from Anxiety. girls that constantly assume they are being hit on usually have UHS, and need to be reassured that they are the center of sexual attention. just keep in mind that its not you, its her, and when she blurts out she has a BF, say, "oh, well i guess we cant be friends" then, give her a playful scowl.