So i met this girl at a park with a bunch of her friends around probably like 20 of them and i found her facebook through one of her friends i knew... i messaged her and it went like this

Me: so how did that picture of you and I turn out?

HB: hahaha good.... how did you find my facebook?


Right away i was wondering if i should of been like i stumbled on it or that i used her friend to find it

So i told her i saw it through one of the girls there and messaged her but if she didnt want me to find it that i would take it back

Good play on it or should i of said something different

Give me your input

I'm not sure I like your reply - it just seems really weak and passive.

This is the reason for PU - so that you don't have to contact her through friends and look needy!

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i agree with infamous, your reply was shaky and frightened. maybe a joke answer would have been better?

I think he was going for a joke with the "I can take it back." It just was the wrong kind of joke.

However, you're asking entirely the wrong question anyway. The question isn't "did I give the correct response." The REAL question is "why didn't I number or email close this girl at the park?"

Had you gotten her contact info directly from her, this whole mess would have been avoided. If you can't get a woman's contact info directly, then she probably doesn't want you to have it. If you could have gotten it and didn't, then why not? Getting the contact info from the source is going to make a much more powerful impression.

So now Khaos, I'll throw the question back to you. Why didn't you close this girl in person? And don't give me excuses or I will smack you with my response.

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Because im a retard and she left before i could ask her for it,

We only talked a little bit before she left so i figured runnin up to her and asking would of seemed weird to her oh well fuck it

Im sorry i let you down haha but i didnt make excuses

Good job on the no excuses thing. You can't help the unexpected (such as her leaving early), but you should always try to plan for it. Usually, if you have built enough attraction, she will make it a point to come up and tell you she is leaving. This is an invitation to number close her.

Since she didn't even say goodbye, it sounds like you needed some tighter game when you were talking to her.

Hey, you win some, you lose some. Since you found her on facebook, you may still have a shot. Your value is extremely low right now, so make sure to keep the online stuff light and neggy. Remember, you're the prize. She just has the opportunity to show you if she has good taste.

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Yeah i think she tried sayin bye to me but i was going around talkin to everyone else that was there ya know trying to be THE alpha male

Thanks for the advice on that one

I don't think that it's bad that someone uses facebook to contact a girl. Especially if you couldn't N close with them by the end of the event. All you are doing is expressing intrest the same as if you tried to N close.

Khaos you're message was weak though.

You shouldn't have felt bad facebooking her and I personal would have told her the truth of how you found her, just not that you were intentionally looking.