Hi im new to the community, read the game about a month ago and now im trying to read as much info as possible.

Anyway if i could have some advice it would be so appreciated.

There is a girl at the gym who ive liked for about a year. Recently ive started seeing her more in the gym and i think shes started to notice me. Think im getting eye contact.

The last three weeks ive ended up next to her on the exercise matts doing sit ups. shes always been the one to come over after im there but i dont read to much into that. Ive also left before her the last two times hoping that i was showing i wasnt hanging around hoping she would speak to me and raising value.

Anyway my problem is i have no idea how to game at the gym. Does anybody have advice on openers to use.

Today she sort of moved away from abs then came back when i was stretching and asked me if id finished with a situp ball which was near me but i hadnt been using. Thats the first time shes spoken to me, and i had my headphones in so just sort of gesterured to take it aand said sure. I guess that was maybe an ioi?

I never see her anywhere besides the gym so its going to be my only shot. Im worried i havent acted quickly enough but then again i think if shes giving me possible ioi's it might still be possible.

Thanks so much for any tips.

Riddler.

Think you got eyecontact? dude, you got to keep looking at her, if you look away you will be labeled as someone who is of low value (=creepy).

Second lesson: NEVER PUT THE CONVERSATIONAL BURDEN ON THE WOMEN! They can't handle it.

Thirdly, you got clear proximity.

Finally, you can game her easily, if you havn't blown it yet. IF. Just open her by asking something you'd like to know, (weather tomorow, gym closing times, WHAT THE FUCK EVER). Then you can go into a DHV routine, or smalltalk such as "I've seen you here some time, how much do you work out?" Just keep in mind that you need to DHV during the same interaction as opening, or you will definatly blow it..

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If you have been seeing her there for a year, she has been seeing YOU for a year. Do you remember back in school how many faces you could recognize because you saw them for a full 9 months? Point being, she knows your face already but because you didn't aproach her the first time you saw her, you have lowered your status a bit. I'm not saying don't go sarge her because you still should, but always remember mystery's 3 second rule.

Agreed. But couldn't he keep his value if his frame was "I have plenty of women. This is the gym.. I train here, not pickup" ?

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Style: Who do you think lies more...
DeAngelo: What's up fool?
AFC: Does this rag smell like chloroform to you?

I see what your saying because a gym is definitely not a bar. Maybe the 3 second rule can extend itself out a few days. But common, a year? Thats a hell of a lot of staring.

Anyway, Riddler, I completely agree with Facher on how to approach this girl.

Just go talk to her.

"About what?!?!?" -About anything.

Don't stay there staring at her, thats more creepy than looking away. If your eyes happen to meet up, you keep the eye contact till she looks away.

Edit: And stop worrying.

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thanks for the advice, i dont think ive come across creepy (but i guess we never do right) so i will try and make conversation next time i see her. In the meantime if anybody wants to throw in any openers or ideas about demonstarting higher value in the gym talk it would be great. Thanks again.