Let's say you've got the girl. Attraction, comfort, seduction, the whole nine. You're in a sexual relationship, and more and more, a "real" relationship. What now? What material out there is there on building and molding a relationship. Is there a Mystery Method for relationships? I'm surprised there's no sub-forum dealing with that on this forum, since I think it's an interesting topic.[/i]

Just a bump.

You could just read "Relationships for Dummies". Haven't read it myself but I was told it was an amazing book and that it helped my friends relationship alot.

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Dude, it's not hard IMO.

IF you've read some from David DeAngelo you'll have material to work with. In a relationship you need to be the same fun person as you were before. This requires the ability to tease, i.e.

If you stay alpha and have the mindset of you being the protector and leader, she'll stay attracted. You can do some DHV, like, telling her random chix adds your msn after they saw your pic on facebook (or something like that). Don't use language such as "Do you want to do this or that" - you are the leader. Simply choose whatever you want to, because that is what leaders do. Always be willing to walk away, and punish her for bad behavior.

Making a relationship good is just like training a dog.

If you reward bad behaviour, she will feel an urge to run you over. In all relationships in nature, the male must suppress the females aggression. If he fails to do this, she will rule over him; and feel unattracted.

For example, my GF alway hit me when I made a bad joke. This for me was unacceptable, as it places her in authority. Simply by freeze-outs and punishments she has now stopped doing this, and our relationship is so much better.

Hope that helps.

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Style: Who do you think lies more...
DeAngelo: What's up fool?
AFC: Does this rag smell like chloroform to you?

In the Game by Style he talks about rocks vs gold. Rocks are basically romance, night out on the town, sweeping her of her feet, and making emotional connections (Rocks are for her). Gold is basically respect and a whole lot of sex (Gold is for you). lol

You should also check out "The Five love languages" by Gary Chapman

Hope this works out for you