Ok, last night I was dragged to a casino by a female friend of mine who was if needed, going to be my "preselection" but there weren't very many hb's there however I met a pair of women one was a HB9 with a tremendous body(the body of a 20 yr old gymist or something lol) but when I asked her how old she was she said 44!!! I'm barely 29 and going by the MM I made her guess(she said 23). Anyway, she accused me of being a player and approaching a million girls that night which may have been true if (other than the hired guns there) there were any attractive females. Anyway, I got her WORK #???!! She told me to call her at work tomarrow. I have no clue what to say but she must have said 50 times "YOU'RE SOOOO CUTE!!" I am very attracted to her really (and would have been even if there were hb's everywhere there is something about her that flips my switch) and would like to at least get one real date with this one but being new to this I don't know what to say. ANY AND ALL ADVICE WILL BE GREATLY APPRECIATED AND CONSIDERED WHEN I CALL HER AT WORK TOMARROW. For the record, I was more intoxicated than I should have been and it would be nice to come off when I talk to her like "that's not really who I am. we should get to know each other better" or something like that

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"Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail"-Emerson

And CUT!

Why call her at work tomorrow? You're being her bitch, stop it. Call her when it fit your schedule, AKA whatever time that she didn't tell you to call.

Don't say that you're "not that person". YOU ARE THIS PERSON. Else you will sound like a player/creep lol.

1. Find an event you have to do anyway; shopping, club etc. If you have none, make one up (and pretend that you ahd to do it).
2. Tell her about it on the phone, don't invite. "I'm going to do X bla bla"
3. After some time, invite her. "That's so cool, hey, you should come with to X on Y date!"

Keep gaming her, don't let her make you a wussy. Treat her like any other girl, she is not special... and yeah.. YOU ARE THE PRIZE.

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Style: Who do you think lies more...
DeAngelo: What's up fool?
AFC: Does this rag smell like chloroform to you?

Yeah, I know I'm the prize and she won't make me a wussy but there are hot girls; super hot girls, then there are girls that are goodlooking but in an instant, one look I am very, very attracted to. It's like they have this x-factor I can't quite put a finger on but here got something extra. She was one of those women. She kept telling me I was really cute and she called me a player and all that that I take as IOI's. I called her late this afternoon and she had left work already so I left my name and # with the receptionist and asked her when would be a good time to call her. She said tomarrow or thursday morning. I would be really happy with a couple dates and a kiss-close...

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"Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail"-Emerson

IOI

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Style: Who do you think lies more...
DeAngelo: What's up fool?
AFC: Does this rag smell like chloroform to you?

ok if he left his name and number,yes its a ioi how ever shouldnt he just have said that he would call back he gave up info without her giving up info? does that make sence?

Wait, I'm confused. Who gave the IOI?? Me or her?? And yes, I gave the receptionist at her work my name and number and she said she'd tell her I called but I had gotten her name and number the night before and all she'd gotten was my name so I got the info first. I would like to get her cell # though...

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"Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail"-Emerson

to me it feels like she is playing you, hard.

telling you when to call, you calling at the said time and she is gone.

if it were me i would blow it off and find something new.

You shouldn't have left your number with the receptionist period. You shouldn't have even called. It shows that she does already own you which means you lost the game all together. Your basically acting like a cat in the cat and ball game, when you grab the ball, (meaning the playing field) the cat will go nuts trying to get the ball. SO STOP BEING THE CAT AND BE THE BALL HOLDER (nothing gay intended lol)

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Wait, I didn't call her when she said to call. I called way later than she said to and why shouldn't I have given my # to receptionist??? I'm not going to call her today but I'm not going to let this one go that easily. If I don't hear from her I'll call her tomarrow. If she isn't there or I do talk to her and she is weird then I'll move on but I like this one.

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"Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail"-Emerson