hey hey, so I got this number from an HB9 this weekend.
I decided to write her a message today, and yeah, dunno if I messed it up or not...

Me: pretty, intelligent, kind, funny, friendly...well enough about ME. How are you?

HB9: attractive, hot, nice, and I get what I want, when I want. Ißm good how was your day?

Me: great thx. well, I know something that you wont get right away

HB9: Really? What is it?

Me: Ill tell ya on friday when were going to have a drink together

HB9: Well sry but on friday I go to my male friend... (obviously a shit test)

Me: Well, seems like you have to cancel your date with your friend and come with me

HB9: Are you crazy? Hes way to hot... (shit test to make me jelaous)

Me: Youre so cute when youre trying to make me jelaous:D

HB9: i know.... but this guy is way to hot.

Me: You just missed the jackpot...

HB9: you too, because youre to cocky

Me: You know I was jk the whole time right?

HB9: Yeah right....

Me: Oh man, the first time we chat together and were allready fighting:D if it goes on like this will be best of friends...listen, noone says you have to believe me...

HB9: Ah What did I say? I told you I get everything I want, youre allready begging... (ouch, I know)

Me: Begging? lol, I just put the facts together.. oh and btw, who approached me on saturday with that original line: damn you sure look buff, how often do you work out?....hmm who was that girl? oh yeah I think her name was (HB9)

HB9: I just asked you because you look buff

Me: Im not that buff but whatever... anyway, it was a pleasure to chat with you, it was more entertaining than the usual boring stuff (hi how are u, what are u doing, bla bla)

HB9: yea it was something new...

Me: ok, have fun on friday;D

HB9: i will, have a goog evening...


Yeah, did I fucked up? Was I too cocky? btw, as you guess, I am a beginner^^

actually in my opinion your game was pretty solid. i think you might be able to work her over at a later point. when plans are made without me, i started this routine where i say "oh i've been there before, not gonna lie it was kinda boring. you should make better plans next time."

thx 4 the reply sexcellnt. I thought I was way to arrogant/cocky with her, maybe I should have build more comfort before negging her, thats why the whole thing didnt go to well. Oh well, I guess Ill do it better next time.

yeah u should have built more comfort or dhv'd more before u layed into those negs.
and next time, dont tell her to cancel her plans, just say someting like,"kk thats cool, now i can go to that party with so&so" that way it still leaves an opening for the future.

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Just my breakdown, from my view. Not saying I'm 120% right.. but whatever, maybe I brought some new info that you didn't consider b4.

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Style: Who do you think lies more...
DeAngelo: What's up fool?
AFC: Does this rag smell like chloroform to you?

thx man, it sure helped me. Next time Ill try to build more comfort and attraction before getting to cocky... I was so confident to get her that I let myself go and became arrogant. Oh well, still glad that it went that way...we live and we learn.