Hi there guys, how you all doing?

Just wondering, theres this one girl that im seeing at the moment... she has bf and all that but i pretend he doesnt exist... and i have girls on the side anyway...

But over the last week or so things have picked up... naturally... we hooked up a while back...

anyway on msn last night, we were just casually chatting and she was watching a film at the same time

right so randomly she asked me 'what are you thinking about right now?' so i told her the truth... tht i was thinking about the application form i was filling out :P


so she asked it again.... this time i was thinking about food......:D

third time she asked... i said wouldnt you like to know....

so she pestered to find out... i left the tension there

so i asked her... i said 'since youve grilled and intruded my brain. what are you thinking about?'

she instantly replied.... '...about sex'

anyway she said after a few things 'well, we were both thinking it'

anyway later on she seemed to kind fade... then come back again saying 'i'm not telling you what i'm thinking now'

so i didnt rise to the bait...

but said to her i wasn't going to rise to it either..

i dont have a clue where this is going... i mean we have made such good connections recently and for her ot be like this is a risk to loose me as even a friend... is she being serious but backing off at times cos shes thikning about the moral reasons of her bf and what her friends will think etc... should i try esculate myself now and remove those beliefs and doubts or just make there no reason for her not to?

cheers guys!

oh ye she's a definate 10.... she was head hunted for modelling..

~sierra~

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This is mostly just a bump i guess but since no one has answered you yet in my opinion i think talking to this girl in person would help this all make a little bit more sense. This is just a personal thing but I hate using messanger to talk to girls, it just doesnt work for me. In person you can read them better, you can read and use body language to your advantage, and its just overall a better way to communicate. I use online communication but only in email type ways because then you can say a whole lot at once and it usually leads to a hang out. Talking online rarely leads to hanging out in my experience... unless you're a predator of course

haha yeh i know what you mean, i dont reallly like chatting girls up on it, but i can still get meets... for example... all i need to say to her now is, yeh im heading through to town tomorrow, and she'll say 'oh you should drop by mine' or 'oh feel free to come by mine on the way' hehe... so it kinda works in that respect, but cheers mate

~sierra~

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So with further thought, i'm pretty sure this is a definite yes. This girl seems really into you shes probably just backing off because you didn't really respond to her escalating. In my opinion that's a good thing. Get together with her sometime soon I would avoid talking about the boyfriend, make her forget he exists. Yeah I believe you should escalate this, but don't go too far if it is going to hurt her social status(OR YOURS!) so state your intentions and find out what hers are.

Obviously though, i wouldnt count on this girl for a serious relationship based on how she is escalating YOU when she has a boyfriend so be careful if you could get hurt but meh you're on the pua forums so lets hope you've built up that immunity

cheers mate, thats what i've been thinking, exactly what ive been thinking, and yeh when she told me she doesn't like he bf etc etc i was building immunity... i said thats not how you talk about a boyfriend... etc and also when she said she told him she cheated (TRYING TO FIND AN EXCUSE TO END IT) she told me that he didn't talk to her for 2 days then told her she shouldn't do it again... when she said that i said to her immediately.... if you did that to me... it wouldn't be just 2 days it would be more like 2 weeks or never again, in fact,, i'd end it right there and then, cos there's plenty more girls out there.... you should have seen the look she gave me

but thanks mate

~sierra~

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