ok it goes like this via text message

me-Congratuations

her-Huh!?

me- i was thinking of you congratulatons

her- erm......thanks!! you must be really bored!!

totally caught me off guard i was unsure how to reply so i didnt.
she is an easy HB9 so it was not the reaction i was expecting

Congratulations for what? LOL

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"To Give anything less than your best is to sacrifice the gift" -Prefontaine

Not a PUA just a girl offering my opinions/advice

If she's a hb9 that's not what I would have a said, could be taken the wrong way (i.e. pervy) since you can't express a playful little smile or what not in a text. But since you have said that I would say, "yeah you're right I am, do you want to hang out?" or something. Others who know more about text game may be able to help out more.

I wouldn't say that. It makes you look like you have no social life.

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"To Give anything less than your best is to sacrifice the gift" -Prefontaine

Not a PUA just a girl offering my opinions/advice

how does it look like i have no social life?

also some help on what to do next would be great, to text again or leave it till i see her on tuesday.

HA! Maybe NOW you see the truth! Maybe NOW you see a piece of the MATRIX, the real fabric of reality!

HOT GIRLS ARE NOT GODDESSES. They are humans with flaws and insecurities just like you and me. THERE IS ABSOLUTELY NO INHERENT REASON TO SUPPLICATE TO THEM OR SEE HOT GIRLS AS ABOVE YOU IN ANY WAY SHAPE OR FORM. They are human.

shes obviously sarcastic, i'd say "don't get used to it or anything", or "take advantage of it while you can" cits a DHV, and creates a sense of urgency

it turns out you are right she is just getting over a break up well 7 months getting over it and she thinks she sucks and that no one likes her!!!

PERFECT EXPLOIT HER!!

haha just kidding. I like the text about "better take advantage of it while you can" i would use that if you still need something to use

read your post wrong... nevermind

How is that a DLV. Maybe if she said "OMG I'm worthless why would anybody ever love me" then yeah, she's DLVing. But here she's just being playful---if anything, it could be a reflection of her mood, and she's testing you to see if you can bring the fun to the conversation. Other times they're just fishing for something to continue the conversation with you. And don't forget the possibility that something out of the blue like that makes her feel "errm" a little uncomfortable, which could work to your advantage.

Anyway, texting is annoying and anything that lasts more than 5 minutes on the back and forth annoys the hell outta me. Call her and arrange a meet.

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