| This is an special case
Sounds like you're actually interested in this girl, as in a girlfriend, not just a FB, that's good
In a social environment, like her birthday, most likely she won't have the time to be hanging out with you only, at least on the first moments, even if she wanted to, people will be pulling her away, it's her birthday, so let be it
Now, how do you connect with her when it's her birthday
Dude, remember this: Do not try to AMOG anyone, YOURE NOT COMPETING FOR HER, you're just there to make her night, if you try to AMOG her friends, things will go bad, trust me.
So here is my methoid, I have done this more than once
The KEY is HANGBACK
1. As soon as you get in there, make sure you walk up to her, and say something like "Happy Birthday Miss" with a smile on your face, "I owe you a present, it's a surprise"
2. Chit chat with her for no longer than a minute, then say, well I'll let you go talk to other guests
3. Start talking to people in the party, guys and girls. If you're interested in this girl in a romantic way, It's definitely not good for her to see you talking to many many girls, and much worse run game on them, so be careful there.
4. When you run into each other again, talk a lil more, if she's polite, she'll introduce you to her friends, shake hands, speak up, let them know youre there.
5. Walk away, once everything starts to cool off, and there is no more guests coming in, or it looks like she has spoken enough, then you can move up to talk to her.
6. Suggest a quieter place for a minute "Come with me outside for a minute"
7. Suggest seeing each other the same night or tomorrow at the latest
8. Kiss close
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