And here we go with day 2 to becoming a PUA

At a house who's parents were out of town. So we are sitting around having a good time when the girl that is holding the party comes up to me after a solid game of beer pong and started bragging about how good i was at sports and stuff. i had said earlier i was going to smoke tonight so she asked if i wanted to go up to her bathroom and smoke a bowl. We get there and i take a hit then she says give it to me... then she kissed me and sucked the smoke out of my mouth... then i just sa down on a chair she stradles and teases and grabs a little... then she says, uh i need to go back downstairs... so we do... then a little later she says lets go smoke again... so we go back to her bathroom she turns the sink and fan on and just jumps on me... but right when clothes started coming off she was like hey i need to tell sherry something and walks out.... then when we go back downstairs again she gets all over me and shit... then i leave... what the hell went wrong? Why am i womanless tonight?!

Did you not put up any sort of fight at all? I would have been like, "Downstairs? What's so important down there?" and then grabbed her and pulled her back onto me. Sounds like she was in control of the whole thing, you should have shown a bit of dominance by taking control of the situation once she had shown that she wanted to fuck you. If you just sit there and don't take control and lead the way, then yeah, she's gonna get bored and assume you don't have the stones.

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I love the irony of the thread title. She was obviously high, i'm guessing she was drunk too? Could just be playing games and having a fun time. Next time just try not following her up stairs, grab another game of pong and let her wait for you.

I did something of the sort i cant really remember what it was...but i talked to her this morning and she said she wanted to but she really had to keep a watch on her house cause things were getting crazy.... she also said she would make it up to me... so i get a 2nd chance

Is this really LMR?

Anyhow, if you think so: be the one to go downstaris. "This is going too fast - I don't even know you!" If she agrees and stops - she ain't into you. If she really would like to fuck you, she'll try to convince you into sex.

You don't have to be authentic about it, just pretend and slow things down. build tension.

UGH and i actually thought about that... but i figured that i was so close to the full close that it would be backtracking to make her fight for it

good advice though i really did need to build more sexual tension first once i think about it

Well, that's understandable, although I don't trust "booty cheques" ever since I read a post by CostOfSuccess aka Cosy over on mASF. Basically he says that if a girl says something like, "We'll do it later" or "I'll make it up to you" it's most likely not gonna happen and I can agree that from personal experience and stories I've heard from other people, booty cheques tend to bounce. Not saying that it won't happen for sure, but don't accept a booty cheque as being as solid as a actual booty.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye