Ive been gaming this girl for about 2 weeks now, its a long story so let me get right down to the point, we were at after prom and she grabed my hand and told me to dance with her, and she said that I was bieng shy around her which wasn't true but I decided to go cocky and funny and said its because she likes me so much, so we danced for a while and I left when we meet up later we were both kind of drunk and I told her to sit down with me, we held hands to the couch which I took as a IOI, so than we go to this private area of the club and I do sum DHV Stories and she tells me that I sound like such a intresting person and offcourse she was laughing at the funny parts of the stories another IOI, I than ask her what her craziest experince was, she answered, I triangular gazed a bit and went in for the kiss right when I was close she backs away and lightly says no, so I stay calm and just say ok in a confident voice and we talk sum more, than when im teasing her on how women are sexual predators and im glad she doesn't just want to use me like the other girls, she brings up randomly that she likes this guy and she doesn't like her back, but earlier in the night my buddy told me who she liked, a total afc, so again I played it cool and said I knw u like me but I dunno about the mutal feeling back totaly cocky funny and moved into the whole thing that im not the right guy for her because I would never call her and probably dump her on valentines day, she laughed, I was realy too tired to stay longer so we huged good bye and she agreed on a date, soo wtf is up man, she gave me all these IOI, backed away when I tried to kiss her and told me she likes this guy, she also thinks im a big player and constantly calls me out on in it, So ive been trying to play it down with the ladies for a while even though I hooked up with a girl that same night haha

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I am bound to add that the excess in too little has ever proved in me more dangerous than the excess in too much; the last may cause indigestion, but the first causes death.
-Giacomo Casanova

Im not sure how old you are, im thinking you are 18ish. It doesnt matter however in my experience i find that younger girls are harder to close and take more work. If you were getting those signals from a 24 yr old then im sure you would of been taking her home. IMO what you need to do is keep playing this girl till she wants to kiss you and when see goes for it, pull away and go no not right now. Later on that night take her to a private place and kiss her, but it would be nice to punish her abit as well.

If she calls you a player and calls you out on it, don't stop. Tell her something like 'If I don't have a girlfriend to get shitty with me for meeting new people, why wouldn't I?'

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- Difference

If she says your a player say

" a player? well yeah im in very high demand right now, you know, your so sexxy, too bad your really not my type, so on friday i saw this.. "

so on. Don’t let her respond.
And dude you hit friend zone, now you have to do damage control.

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