Ah but you can change it so people dont know weather you viewed their profile or not.
Alot of people choose this option, as i did.
So not everyone shows up on the 'viewed me' list.

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To effectively communicate, we must realise that we are all different in the way we percieve the world and use this understanding as a guide to our communication with others.

Which is a smart thing to do.

Ive been on POF a while now....closed MANY deals from there.

The key to succeeding on a site like POF is having a profile that stands out from the rest. Im not going to tell you guys how my profile is structured but i will tell you it gets results. I had a lame, plain profile that only really had a few boring blurbs about myself in the beginning...i got very little contact from anyone. Once i changed to my new 'exciting' profile i get new messages every single day from new people.

You dont even have to send them a message to get things going. Just the lady seeing that you viewed their profile is enough for THEM to contact you first.

ok here is one of my openers i got off here....



so your cute......


Beauty is Common...If you take a look around this site you'll see there are beautiful people everywhere. What else do you have going for you besides your looks?


hb8-What else do I have to go on? Hmm...I'm intelligent....but that could come across as arrogant...I'm talented, again, though, could sound arrogant. Hmm... Here are a few:

I have been dancing ballet since I was five years old...

I am a published poet...

I listen to death metal and sing along with an operatic soprano....


All artsy related...hmm...

How does that work?


me-awww your so adorable....altho the whole death music is kinda scary tho,you would try to kill me if we met would ya...


hb8-*giggles*

Of course I wouldn't try to kill you! That's reserved for the second date! LOL

So what about you?

What else do you have going for you, other than your pretty face?


me-well thats good to know...ill make sure i dont piss you off the first date hahaha....oh flatery will get you everywere lol...well basic charm,romance,good heart,faithful,honest...are music intrest are off but hey it doesnt matter we dont have to listen to music lol....bsides your cute im cute thats all we need



hb8-Methinks you should IM me....



well im still waiting on her to read my last message cus she got offline after sending the last message go figure lol...but i used this paticular opener and changed it to work on the net...it has worked pretty well for me this was a good example cus it was a short score a matter of 10 mintues...im working it to get with her in hopes of a f-close...she says in her first date section that the night would end up at her apartment with a kiss,sorry no sex...gotta build up the tention first...ima very charming guy so if i just go with it ill score a day 2 and then its on like donkey kong...

also means u can find out what other guys are writing and do something different.

unbelievable.....i got my account deleted cus sum fat heffer who was nasty as hell got mad cus i wasnt interested in her...she sent me a shitty ass email last night saying i needed to stop viewing her profile or she would report me...she did alright they bannded my name i use and i made a new one and they got that one 2...stupid ass ugly bitches...becarefull dont respond to who your not interested it will cost you severly....

Which is part of the reason why it is a smart thing to do.


My first question is why where you viewing her profile. Secondly did you really view it that much? And thirdly send an e-mail to the staff at POF and tell them your story. Because what they did was stupid. Lastly this is yet another reason to hide your profile so that when you do visit a girls profile she does not know about it.

well to cleer something up yes i viewed her profile after she sent me her very first email about a week agao...other than that time i never did view it again...i think she was seeing me on her who has viewd section,everytime you refresh or check your mail on pof it recycles your picture threw and your back to the first person who is online..i sent a couple messages to the pof people but they havnt responded i created another account after posting this and they didnt delete the second they did the first one and bannd my ip adress...as for hiding i never wanted to hide my profile,but after all this it is the best idea ever thought of on pof....if im able to get back on there i will for sure b invisable...if you would have seen this woman you would have known that i only viewed her the one time..she is a bigger woman a 3 if that...i never responded after her second email she sent me last week and i think it ticcked her off that i didnt respond so she wanted to get even...i had 12 messages at lunch yesterday,i didnt check them cus i figured it would give me something to do when i got home now i got screwed...so to everyone who reads this MAKE YOUR PROFILE INVISABLE!!!!!!

I see. I can also see where this woman most probably flip out and got you basically banned from POF. While you wait for a response from POF, you may want to use a proxy and sign up for another profile if you want to take that route.

After reading this post, I have to say something to you guys. Youtube, google or anything related to what she likes in her profile, could be your WINGMAN. Here how:

I read a girl profile headline on POF that said : "Looking for some one who keeps it real"
Then it hit me; "dave chappell, when keeping it real goes wrong."

I send her a message....

Subject : u keepin it real?
Message : hmmm.... maybe I know someone for u that keeps it real.....
I put in the link of the video, and I send it to her and WHAM! I got responce from her:
Haha omg I love that lol!

Guys one thing to keep in mind is that when you send a message the goal is for you is start off a conversation with the girl. Make sure you message are funny and cute.