That's what I needed to hear. Thanks.

Don't get hurt so easily mate *taps on the shoulder* !

What I mean is: No, don't say that poem. At least not before you two are in a LTR (Long-term relationship).

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There is NO secret ingredient. Theres just you.

just, no.


unless you're making fun of her with it. then its all good

i wouldn't email her a poem. if she already turned you down it seems like now you are acting desperate and trying to get her approval.
keep in contact but nothing dramatic.
you dont want her to think your hung up on her. then she'll just game you and abuse you.
wait till she comes back to school and show her what a mistake she made turning you down.

If you want my opinion, telling her to fuck off (like someone said) is going too far. Don't get angry or abusive at a girl who rejects you, because that shows you can be hurt - and that's a real DLV. And also because she probably doesn't understand the subconscious motives working inside her brain, so you'd be getting angry at her for something she didn't do out of any intentional malice.

And don't send her a poem, that makes it look like you're fishing for her attention. The reason she's paying attention to you, despite having rejected you, is probably that she thinks (subconsciously) that you're a nice-guy AFC who she can turn to for emotional support, and then jump into bed with some macho alpha when you've exhausted your usefulness. Sending her "I wanna be nice to you even though you hurt me" messages just proves you can be useful to her, and get walked over in the process.

It's water off a duck's back. You're the prize. She missed out. Her loss. Time for you to move on.