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thank you finaly someone that is here to discuss ideas rather than critisize on irrelevant matters. tanx man I apreciate it

re: "Every girl has the right to be ugly, but you abused the privilege" ~

It's not even a neg, its an insult; you're calling her ugly.

A neg is disguising something that lowers her social value as a compliment.

so push pull is simply, you say something bad that pushes her relationship with you away, and then say something good that pulls it back, but how does it improve on the closeness of you two

ha ha ha nice one. ok i wasn't aware you guys take spelling so seriously, but i'll give you credit for pointing that one out. maybe you sud go teach the 5th grades english cos you are soo gud at it. and oh yeh you haven't answered the question. what can be improved on it and wat would you avoid, or include.

hahahahaha, a little hard to believe man.

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when life gives you lemons, you paint that shit gold.

I would think that you could get urself into some sticky situations usein this, however i like to live on the edge and will give it a try at the weekend. Did it work for ur friend?

I do think that depending on the HB's intelligence she may become confused and think you are a real prick.......leaving u in a situation that is irreversible

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Okay, so reading this thread, and the ones on www.secudtionbase.com, and one from an rsd newsletter, this is what I am currently thinking Push Pull is (This is basically the way my mind is thining at the moment and any input on this would be great).

Push Pull is bringing the two of you closer then putting up a wall (someone wrote this on the first page of this thread). Like Neigbours, or Melrose place (drama TV) where the tension is created (push), resolved briefly on firday night (pull) then, hold up, we get a preview for next week and the drama is on again (push).


Now, I believe there are three different areas to do this in, (anyone know anymore???). I have written them up and have had a go at three examples, with the option for you guys tp put your own in too. This way, were not practicing pre-scripter lines. Moveover, we are practicing spontaneous thinking!!



1- Connection with commonalities. An example in the RSD newsletter was:

You: I love ice cream, how about you?
Her: Oh me too. (pull)
You: Cool, I like mint chocolate chip, what's your favorite flavor?
Her: I like strawberry.
You: Oh man, those two are like polar opposites, haha, I bet wehave complete different taste in food. (push)

Here I guess commonalities could vary for anything including:
Food, Music, Hobbies I.E Surfing, Bush Walking, Restarunts, TV shows, Movies, Perhaps even behaviours... doing nice things for friends, family, adventure, types of humor i.e Making fun of weird people, exegeration of facts to the point where it is not even slightly based on reality, sarcasm etc...

Here's one for everyone to try

You: I loved reading the book To Kill A Mocking Bird, how about you?
Her: Oh my god thats my favourite book I live reading those types of books
You (insert answer here PUA's.......) Well... (pausing for effect) I never actually read fiction novels, I only read that one cause I had to in year ten.

Some auto pilot responses to the book one above, and most other could be,
Commonality (Pull), then Mystery response,
OMG... I cant talk to you now (Push)
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2- Physical Touch,
Where you pull her in somehow then push her away.
-Like when you signal her to come in closer on the dance floor and then when she is about to fall into your arms you push her away or
-When you go to kiss her and pull back at the last second (absoloute killer, cheers TOP GUN),
When you do the mystery ones of:
-When she touches you, dont touch me
This one is alot simpler then having to think of pulling with a commanality then pushing by putting up a wall. Caveman is easy baby.

Pulling her in Kino
Stroking your hand through her hair ( PUA's...make up some sort of kino)
Smelling her hair with you nose against her ear,
Turning around and re-iniate conversation (PUA's...devise a scheme for pushing her away physically)






No 3- Fitcicious/Future Scenareos (i have no fucking clue how to spell this word, sorry guys, haha. Rest assured... I will be a fully trained primary school teacher this time next year mohaha. I will be teaching your kids biatches). Moving on... this one is like making up/role playing that you have already been together, or are about to be together, do something fun together but she has done something to ruin it or is about to.

-I am going to let you be my girlfriend... for the next five minutes
-You look like my future ex girlfriend
-Were broken up (we were together pull) I want my cd's back Push (Mystery-)
-You are drunk, we could have hung out we could have had the best time together.
-An example I created, I want to take you down town and dress you up in a Police outfit, and I will dress as the worlds greatest bank robber and you can desperatly try and fail at chasing me down the street again.
Awww, wait, your a blond...I need a brunet.
-We shouldnt be together (running finger down face) This one is a mix up of kino and make beileve.

Example for us to try:

1-Role play future ex girlfriend..
(crazy scenario fellas...pull)
Remember that time we went skiing together and nearly died, and then we got back to the hotel and dressed up as mexican bandito's and ate malasian chicken, and that sweet kiss we had by the fireplace... Man... how did you let me break up with you...

2-Roe play doing something fun with her (I am getting tired and think i covered this in the one above) but have a crack at it.

3. Quick one liner...

compliment....push

You are the coolest person I have talked to... in the last five minutes

You have the nicest smile... out of all the brunett's in the room.

Your are either .... fill in the blank
really fun or really weird
have a good sense of humor, or are related to stalin
really sensitive...or boring.


Cheers Biatches.
Oh and by the way, any of you guys who are not form Australia, and have not seen the movie Chopper, get it out right now. A serious movie with some really really funny bits in it.

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dude...have a crack at it...you want to learn dont you? If you read and read you 'learn about' pick up and the theories but you dont 'learn to' use the theories. So, if you have a go a at this spontanious thinking and then apply it...well you in the car driving on a road trip with your four best mates...or you could be reading about a road trip some of your mates had.

Crack it bro!!!

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