My problem is I don't know if I'm good looking, I'm tall (6ft 3in/4in), green eyes, nice smile (i believe) and ive been complimented by many friends (girls) that Im good looking but I've been rejected so many times that I don't know what to think anymore, I just think my friends say that just to be nice...


Should I just put up a photo here and see your judgement? I just think girls always see me as a friend or the way I do my openers (tone of voice, leaning of body etc) is not correct...

HELP!

looks dont matter

hey bro, check this out looks are not that big when it comes down to attraction, yes women do consider how u look of course they would not want to date sumbody who looks like egor lol unless ur a MPUA then thats a different story. But its not the basis for getting her to become interested in you keep this in mind women fall in love through their ears and men fall in love through their eyes as funny as it sounds its tru. Women are worried bout their looks just as much as u r think bout it why would a person spend 57 billion hours in front of a mirror puttin on make-up and other crap just to go to the mall, super market or wherever.

So the the basis is if ur going to game em up dont worry bout how you look just go for it theres only 2 things they can tell u (technically) yes or no. As long as u have fun when u approach and not care bout what she thinks far as ur looks ull do just fine. Remember just have confidence in urself and ull be alright

-dahn

thanks mates. ill take it into account!

So you meet the general height requirement of most girls, and have confidence issues.
The reason you are getting rejected and girls are seeing you as a friend is one you lack of confidence and two your not building any attraction.

They do matter to a certain extent.

Post the pic, ill tell you the truth, and it might stop you worrying