about a week ago...i started with this girl at work...everything went smoothly we talked i the break room then emailed back and forth and i neg. and she ended up giving me her number without me even asking...then the following day after work her and some friends were going out to buffalo wild wings for some drinks...she invited me so we went...we had fun...she gave me some signs such as closing my phone for me when i got a text message from other people. then the next day...she didn't say much...next day asks me to walk her to her car we end up talking for about 30 mins and she asks for a kiss before i go back inside. and its sorta been this though...one day she'll act really into me and text me at work sayin i'm sexy and how cute i look while i'm sittin at my desk...then other days she just always replies to all my texts with one word answers...not sure what to make of it and what i should do any help ??

Hey man feel you on this problem its happened a lot...

it seems this girl is really into you, when i get one word responses from girls i give them time to "miss" me... me and my friend do it, its what PUA call a FReeze out i guess but on a smaller scale..i reply slower to their texts like i'm busy or dont call for a day or so

Question: when she gives these one word responses do you find yourself asking her questions a lot? STOP, cool it, once she does that think about your topic starters, for example:

This one girl i talked to using text was was what i call iffy she basically did the same your girl did real affectionate one day the next...cold fish... what i did when ever she kept giving short responses or started just answering my questions without giving me actual input to the conversation i stopped and just waited a couple of hours to a day (depending on how i felt) then just started asking her "what she was doing" then when she gave me a reply i would just be like "O" or not reply at all then no later than 30 mins she would always reply back either "Why?" or asking me what i'm doing then i would take it from there with a "just wondering" or nothing much chilling and then ignore her responses after that and she'd be back on the affection (if thats what i wanted)

Hope I helped

anyone else feel free to disagree if thats not what the situation calls for

update me on how it goes

yea thanks for the help....and your right i guess i've noticed myself when she loves to reply back with " OH" or LOL and thats it...i'll end up asking questions to think of something else to keep her interested..which is where i'm messing up i guess...but then i'll notice i dont talk to her for a a day or something and she'll text " what ya too good to talk to anybody anymore"

how should i reply to that...i usually just reply with "hey a phone works both ways"

why did you say you "need" help "as soon as possible?"
chyllax

well because i needed help with my situation