What would a female do in this situation? Its unbelievable some of the this they will do/say, but if a guy was to do the same he would be veiwed as completely out of order.
If you dont want to hurt them, let them down in a way you like to be but making sure they get the hint.

ideas:

1) ignore calls and avoid

2) get a new girl and say 'this is my GF'

3) say you're not just not attracted to her no more

4) keep them around and just do as friends would

5) tell her you're hindu and you have a wife in india

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Or simply tell her "lets just stay friends."

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LJBF for sure... but be careful about what you bring her to as a friend... otherwise she'll cockblock for sure... whether on purpose or not.

I find that the word 'respect' works wonders. Try something like:

"I don't think I'm as over *ex's name* as I thought... I need space to sort my head out... but I like hanging out with you, and I really respect you for *fill in personal attribute here*... hopefully we can make a good friendship out of this?"

That sort of thing will soften the blow. Once you've made the break, just phase her out slowly over time.

Talk about another girl. That's the easy way I have been able to diffuse the situation. Just talk about another girl, completely unrelated to her or her friends, and ask her how she would go about attracting them. Now given, you are a PUA, so you don't actually want the advice, but you are giving her a subtle cue about what your intentions are with her.

tell her straight up.

dont get it too complicated. ur putting the same things at stake here, so why not just take the route that saves u energy.

- Make it clear that you are friends/ not looking for a relationship
- Ask for advice on relationships/girls
- Hook her up with one of your buddies

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omg that's genius

Well, you said you were gonna ask a girl, so one came to you, lol.

I think this and/or pointing out girls you think are attractive, asking her to help you out in any way with other women is probably the best way. Just don't do it right in the middle of a relationship or anything, make sure you back things off sufficiently first.

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Nahh, thats just crule, you havent seen my buddies. They are all brilliant guys, just not exactly the hight of male evolution

Although i can see the asking for advice on relationships and stuff working [/code]

The only way for them to be able to rationalize not feeling attraction for you and come out feeling better off is to act AFC hahahah!!! but that shoots yourself in the foot.... if you can sacrifice a bit of of your ego so when she tells other girls.. oh he became too needy.... then fine... but i would rather have girls tell them.. oh he's just a dick.... still shows shes attracted and all the other girls see it.... meh i dunno its an either or situation... you could always just go with the... i'm not attracted to you version.... shell still call you a dick but she cant say you didnt do it nice

~sierra~

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