Like the topic says I am in dire need of help to get this girl...


Backstory is I knew this girl for a while never really payed attention to her really but I NEVER burn bridges with good looking girls so I flirted with her on occasion. This trip came along and she was there really I hug out with her, flirted with her really hit it off: was the AMOG, made her laugh, rough play (basically wrestling type stuff), got to know her never once did she mention a boyfriend till we got back. She didn't start dating him till we got back actually

Now currently im in the process of what you guys call a FREEZE OUT, I accidentally put myself in the Friend Zone, Need a way out!?

, well anyway on the phone I try to mess with her head really make her forget her boyfriend second guess the guy,

Basically well , no OBVIOUSLY what I need help with is a great way to get rid of this guy? Not really Bf Destroyers , but mostly general help with gaming her up and developing something here, main form of communication is text messaging, Facebook, talk to her on the phone.

Help is much appreciated thanks


EDIT: I know how this is a conflicting thing but she JUST started dating this guy, she took him to prom a while back, she has called him a loser because he smokes and drinks, I think its just a rebound type o guy she might just be in a slump, but every now and then she sends a signal like on a picture of them or something "This is the future.." its weird getting mixed signals... basic mentioning him when i continue to flirt for example:

I was talking to her one time

Me: It's not my fault, YOUR the one thats going to slip up eventually and scream out my name instead of his
HB: Never.. It will always be [BF]
Me:Who?
HB: Who What?
Me: See thats how i know for a fact You dont feel for him the way you say you do
HB: How do you know that?
ME: Because.. If he was truly important to you , you'd have remembered his name, but you got caught up talking to me
HB:Whatever, What're you doing?

I ignored her after that for a couple of hours

NOTE: this was all via text messaging

man im not one to say this normally cus i would say go for it but...if you really like this girl give it time if you think hell screw up then let him do it on his own...let the girl have a chance to see if its love...sounds like you got oneitist or sumthin...just move on answer every so often if she asks why your not talking to her that much just be honest with her say hb's name i dont want to talk cuz im afraid ill still you from him....i know its all about the game but the way you talked her up you have feelings for this girl if thats the case if you just say what i said she will remember that and if it ends with the dude she will run to you....or if you dont like my opinion go for it untill theres a ring on that finger....hope i helped a little for ya...good luck man

For one, don't even bother mentioning the boyfriend. Game like she doesn't have one. When you mention him while you're gaming, she second guesses herself which isn't good. Rule number one is don't mention her boyfriend unless she mentions him; in that case, deviously decrease his value.

Thanks bigjamiemac and MSmith19

im going to take both of your advices

your right i should just wait for him to screw up (know its gonna happen, and its easier on the conscience), you really sorta snapped me out of the one-itis i need to check other options, at the same time i want to learn all i can

so whats a way a person can decrease his value (bf)?