I number closed a divorcee, got a work colleague dropping major hints of interest and got eyed up by a few girls only because I broke the ice with them, and was seen as a sociable person in general.

The divorcee I got chatting to at work. I work where I deal with customers all the time. I was genuinely interested in what she had to say as she seemed nice to talk to. This resulted in her asking me a few things and telling me she was divorced. I didn't even ask! She doesn't live in the country and asked her if she'd 'show me around' if I visited her. She knew exactly what I meant and she gave me her number.

The colleague at work, I used the mystery method. Where you open as a sociable person, drop DHVs, tell her about you and your feelings. I've recently kept a bit of facial hair and she commented on it, how she prefers clean shaven. I got her to touch my face (stroke my beard!) and asked if she would kiss it. She replied 'if you were my boyfriend then I would.' I could feel she was well into me and the whole day she was giving me the eye.

I've also found, this I knew anyway though, the more sociable you're perceived, the more chance people would want to talk to you and smile at you. Friendly looking people are easier to talk to because you know it won't get uncomfortable.

After all this, I STILL FIND IT IMPOSSIBLE TO APPROACH!!

Argh!!!! I hate myself!!! Lol

"After all this, I STILL FIND IT IMPOSSIBLE TO APPROACH!!

Argh!!!! I hate myself!!! Lol"






man i was once there but you cant continue feeling like that....what i do and it works....but when i see a hb i want to approach i take a deep breath and exhale while walking to her...then i just go for broke with what ever comes to mind....sure they might ignore you or what ever but atleast your doing it....there is plenty of hb's out there man...just brush yourself off and try again b4 you know it approaching wont b nothing....im able to talk to ne hb and b comfortable.....as for your post in general good job man....gotta giv you props....i work with the public and im scared to hit on hb customers,i just dont want to get fired for sexual harassment...so ima good boy at work....