Sat. night I was at this great keg party and there were some really hot girls there but there was this one hb9 blonde that was really bouncy and flirty. She seemed to like this one AMOG the most but she did flirt with me and gave me her number before she left. Being that she was sooo flirtatious I'm not really sure how to open her when I call or how to build attraction since my game isn't that tight yet...any advice? What to say? How long to wait to call? should I text instead? thanks- opium

Its tough to say not being there, but from your description it seems that this girl is a social butterfly. HBs like this especially love going around to different people because of the attention they get from their beauty. I dont think you did anything special so Im not sure how solid the number close was. It seems she may just have given it out for fun, like many girls do for an ego boost. This is not to say you dont have chance with her. HBs FLIRT ALOT, so this alone does not suffice as interest in you. Your interaction with her leading up to the nclose is vital. Did you actually create attraction with her? Or did you just talk to her like any other AFC just bc she was flirty??

Since your game 'isn't tight yet' I would recommend not giving a shit! When you are starting out, its all about practice. Do not be afraid of making mistakes or even losing a girl. Ironically it is this indifference that makes a guy magnetically attractive to a female. If I were you, I would prob start out with texting because it is not as daunting as talking on the phone. It gives you more time to think of responses and you can also be funny/witty in them! Good luck

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I completely agree, get what you can, but don't dispair if you don't get any. But as for advice, we know she likes parties, so see if you can get her out to a party. Tell her that its coolif she brings a friend or 2, and you should. Get a wing to go along with. Above all, remember to have fun, that will make you all the more attractive

Yeah, she was definitely a social butterfly and extremely outgoing but for what it's worth, I'm pretty sure I was the only guy who got her number and she wasn't actually "flirting" with a lot of guys though she was bouncy she pretty much stuck to me and this one guy she came with from what I could tell but yeah she was loving the attention; she was one of the top 3 hottest girls there so you know a lot of guys were giving her attention too. I don't think I did very much to attract her really but she'd be like "give me five" and let her fingers linger on my hand a little longer so I did too. Then when we were in the basement playing guitar hero (I suck at that game man and I'm wicked on the guitar??? lol) she was sitting on the arm rest of the couch with her arm around me? IOI I thought. I dunno but fuck it, guess I'll just text her with some unique shit and see what happens. Thanks -opium

"Hey, its me ____, I'm heading out do do ____... you want to tag along?"

Too late. I texted her with some PUA opener line. Sometimes it works great, other times it has an adverse effect and they think you're a sick prick lol. I wrote"I'm using candy to lure girls to my house. Which do you prefer skittles or m&m's?" She hasn't responded yet but she seemed like the fun type that would...oh well, practice

"I'm using candy to lure girls to my house. Which do you prefer skittles or m&m's"



hahahaha thats freaking hilarious man.......ima gonna steal that lol.....

go for it lol, it works most of the time...just not this one