So I was outside my my shop talking to a pal when this fucking sexy little blonde bombshell came out of the recruitment centre next door with her mum. As they walked past I asked the mum if the girl was her daughter. She said yes, and I said "oh, so you're not sisters then" (<---always a winner). The mum laughed and I asked the hot blonde daughter if she was looking for a job (hence the recruitment centre). She said she was and I said I was looking for someone. I cracked a few jokes, made them both laugh. I said to the girl to give me her number and I'll call her. So she did. I dropped her a neg; I asked if she was from the area, she said she was, I said I'm suprised that with hair that blonde I havent seen her walking around. they laughed, the mum said "yeah its like a light bulb isnt it", the daughter was like "mum, shut up".
So thats the scenario. It went well. I have her name and number. I want to call her to get her to come out for a drink.
Should I just get straight in there and tell her I think she's hot and I want her to come out? Remembering she gave me her number with regard to a job. I didnt really chat her up too much.
Im actually DJing tonight, tomorrow night, and the night after that. Should I invite her?... All Im thinking is that Im gonna be concentrating on the turntables and wont be able to give her my full attention if she came, is that a bad move?
Any ideas greatly appreciated.

Don't tell her she's sexy over the phone before you even met. That's just being a douchebag. It's all situational so I say be natural.

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youve played your cards right, now shes gotta validate herself to you... ultimately though dont look for love in this one i think she just wants the JOB

Yo
this is a sure shot, tried this many times works for sure
If you are djing and only dj like 1 hour then invite her over, make her feel you are the king, talk to her a bit when she comes then go an say hallo to an hot one just after, maybe saying something like I'll be right back.. (this works well after u dj so u can concentrate on ur game better with the right confidence and buzz) then disappear for 20 mins then go back and isolate her and close
Works every time

Don't if you are djing all night !!

Being DJ = being God.. atleast over the dancefloor.

It's a real DHV having loads of ppl dancing to whatever you're giving them.

BTW, do you guys know how to become a DJ? I really want to, though I'm not buying all the equiptment before knowing how to handle it.

Agrees with Facher. When you get a number, it doesn't necessarily mean that they wanna hangout. I got numbers of several girls but getting hold of 'em was critical and mostly tricky (at least in my experience).

Make sure that when you call her, don't leave a message. If you do, you ain't got no excuse to call her again because of the fact that she didn't respond to your voice message which could be a sign of denial (might not always be the case).

The way I play the game is I use some openers published by the fellow PUA's in this forum and send her a text asking an interesting question (For Example: Do penguins have knees?). It worked most of the time but as you might know, nothing is guaranteed. For some reason, I feel it might work for you as that worked out with most of the blondie's I met. If she doesn't respond to the message, you got nothing to loose. You still got an option to call her.

One suggestion is always be enthusiastic and confident. I'm hoping that this helps. I'm open for suggestions

sounds like you've played it pretty cool so far. gaming with the mom around? that's impressive. i like the way you worked her in too. just having her mom around while that was going on was a huge neg via embarrassment.

i say just go for it. don't try to play it off as you're recruiting her like "i think i need to get to know you better". i'd try to roll with something more direct like "hey you seemed pretty chill, you wanna hang out sometime?" and then from there you could invite her to your DJ thing, which i totally agree makes you god. i donno if there's cover, but if you could get her and a friend in free or on the list? bam, dynamite. every girl loves to know men in charge. plus, its a casual first date, not even a date, an outing rather. it fits perfectly into your laid back, cocky-funny routine you got goin.

well, good luck. field report?

Tell her straight off: "I lied about the job, my bad. Im a bloke thats what we do, By the way Im dolphin trainer really, honest..."
then when she calls or txts back asking if your lying again, neg her for being a bit slow.

yeah.. i wouldnt tell her she's sexy as you did... lol


funny thing bout the dolphin trainer... My ex-GF is a dolphin trainer..lol

DJing= total DHV

Im kind of new to all this but from what i know id say this is a good chance for styles "Its not lieing its flirting" line, you can always use the excuse that you didnt want to make a bad impression in front of the mum (neg). I dont know how old you are but im sure she kind of knew you werent really recruiting with a mate outside the job center but she still talked to you so yeah, get away from the job lie quikly with a neg and see if she still wants to come see you dj! (Kudos on chatting up infront of mum!)
CJay