Hi my name is LaBamba like the song, I been in and out of the forums and reading books but finally I decided to work on my game for real. My outer game is not bad, I can get laid when I want to and I can really hit 7 & 8 on any night. I read David Deangelo's book and I really get cocky and funny, I read the game really dig style (neil), read a lot and watch mystery really good style but is not me, so I pick and choose out of his staff, juggler has to be my favorite his staff is just natural to me. I'm looking to work on my inner game, plus my closing. I'm great on the openings, but 50% of the time I get in the friend zone so really got to work on that. In my inner game I want to really become much more confident, really start to be completly true to myself and really create my own world. If anyone knows what I can read about inner game please tell me. I'm getting some hypnosis but nothing good. This has help me become more social and get the girls. But also this help me become a better person, I got out of many of my vices by working on my game. My coke habit I kick it after gaining self love. I quit smoking and really control my drinking (I only drink one drink when I go to the club and really only go once a month) better my health and really started to take care of my body. Now I'm moving to Flagstaff (is a big city compared to were I live) and I want to really make the change. I want to become the best Bamba that I can be. I'm sure that with your help and lots of work we can become the ultimate community. If anyone lives close to Flagstaff (Phoenix, Sedona) or you have trips to Vegas or the Grand Cayon send me a message we can sarge togheter. Well now that I got so personal with all of you, let me tell you let's have fun and be happy.[/b]

Ok is been a couple days, but I already found a great book for working in your inner game. Many of you probably hear of Dale Carnegie's How to make friends, great book. I just read it twice and did some notes really like the ideas and I'm putting some into practice. Other cool books I found were:
Simple magic tricks by Jon Allen-cool tricks that don't require much set up.

Mathemagic-great for kiss games and DHV.

The little guide to your well read life by Steve Leveen-great way to learn literature.

The procrastinator's Handbook by Rita Emmett-this book will help me stay in course and reach my goals.

the definitive book of Body Language by Allan and Barbara Pease. If you want to jump your game up a notch this is a must. Plus if you are into sales or any people buss this can really help u. Right now I'm writting my rules. See I figured that in order to have my own world I had to created. So I been brain storming and I'm working on what my world is like and what is acceptable and what is not in my own reality. Now I can see who deserves to share this reality with me and who can be erase of my life.

Ok, for the deep changes you might want, go for something like:

Introducing NLP Neuro-Linguistic Programming
by Joseph O'Connor (Author), John Seymour (Author)

The Adventure of Self-Discovery: I : Dimensions of Consciousness : II : New Perspectives in Psychotherapy
by Stanislav Grof (Author)

There are a lot more but I have read and talked about these books.
For the more lighthearted, try these.

How to be the bad boy Women love
by Ron Louis (Author), David Copeland(Author)

Man Walks into a Bar: The Ultimate Collection of Jokes and One-liners
by Stephen Arnott (Author), Mike Haskins (Author)

The Man Walks into a Bar has a seriously great set of jokes. A lot of good jokes about sex too!

Here is a great page for some good jokes, they've worked wonders, some e-mail material in there too.
http://www.geocities.com/alreaud/Humor/ ... age_1.html

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I'm going to check out those books on monday and thanks again. The website is really funny thanks for everything

If you wonder why I keep updating this, is because I want a record of what I'm reading and doing in my inner game.

Two new books I really dig are mindset by Carol Dweck nice reading and really inspirational.

The 4 hour work week by Tim Ferris. This guy is opening my eyes on how to make a living and live like I always wanted to live. He has to be part of the community because his writing is so familiar.