So I work in a bar... they tell me what I want, can anyone give me any ideas of where I can take it from there?

I thought maybe if its a bad drink then I could neg them... I could say something like "Terrible choice, you need a drink that represents you as a person" and then go from there...

Ideas?

I also work in a restraunt could I do the same thing with food?

Do you work behind the bar in the restaurant?

I do bar work also. I game women in some of the places Ive worked, some others it wasnt accepted. The more 'fun' places, not up-market places it was cool to neg on the drink choices etc but the nicer places they would just look at you like 'you are you to say that, youre just the barman...' you DLV value was to low because you were behind the bar and they were wealthy.

Yeah I work behind the bar in the restraunt and in the restraunt itself as a waiter sometimes... but on thursday - sat nights after dinner service, the place practically turns into a club.

They are really relaxed there, its not upmarket... hell I can pretty much get away with saying anything...

I found one thing that girls love is if you "invent" a cocktail, shot, drink whatever for them. But just getting started with conversation is my problem.

I never really gamed 'on the job' as in opened sets and built rapport, because the place was always busy so if I spent to much time (as in 30+ seconds) talking to a HB I was conveying alot of attraction straight away and DLVing, becuase in her eyes I ws risking getting myself in trouble just to speak with her.

There a smoking area in the place? Go there on your breaks in your uniform and check out the set you want to open. Then go over and be all authoritaritive and say something like 'Sorry, you cant have your lipstick out on display in here, close the bag please...' or 'Sorry, No smoking' shes like 'Wtf its a smoking area'... 'Yeah I know, its No smoking every second half hour, not right now, put it out for a second and you can light up in *two minutes*, dont get me in trouble with the boss'... shes looking at you like 'Wtf' starts putting away the smoke and you just look at the set and are like 'I CANNOT believe she just fell for that one, oh yeah by the way, no drinking in the bar aswell' and continue... n-close or ask if one wants to hang around after work, youre dieing to go out somewhere...

haha i like the no drinking at the bar as well. Good tips right there for the approach and convo starter. Being the hired gun is hard but then again you have a realistic time restraint as mystery would put it. Open and talk to her about what ever, if she is a bit stuck up tell her that you saw the same necklace on a customer across the room a minute ago. (watch her try and see for herself) Then walk away and come back, after all the restaraunt business requires lots of comming and going. If she gets up at all you can say "Were you really going to the bathroom or were just trying to see if someone else had your necklace?" Kinda push pull and every time u walk back over there you can add a bit of flavor to it. Im a server at my restaraunt and this works pretty well most of the time (unless she is with a guy.. dont do that hahah) Hope it helps!