I sit here with Mittens who so far has had little to say about some recent events. As Mittens is a cat I don't expect this to improve. Anyway ive gone off on a tanjent here, seeming as I haven't said anything to go off on a tanjent from I'm not sure how that is possible. Scrathes head in confused maner. Back on topic, now I haven't posted any of my FRs before (really should get around to that), this one just felt the need to be written.

Im on the beach throwing a frisbee around with some mates, hucking them long and chasing after them. Well a disc im set to chase gets thrown and is just floating along , I spot a 3 set, 2 HB8s and an HB9 sitting near where the disc is going to hit about catchable height. Now having always wanted to do this as a sort of open, I deliberatly slow so that I have to lay out for the disc (basically diving so that you are a few feet off groung body completely horizontal). Catch it turn to the target( one of the HB8s , the only brunnete and I was in a brunnete mood) and say 'You look exactly like my girlfriend (Just in case some of you didn't realise this is a lie, when I'm commited to a girl I ain't out on the PU) .' She just looks at me

HB8: Wow

I know at this point, I know this is going to end how I want it.
Some DHV about why we are throwing the frisbee. ( all true stuff about my mate missing his g/f so thought a day on the beach would cheer him up, so I organised it. Some little comments about the huge sunglasses the HB8 is wearing. Ask them if they want to join in throwing the disc about and get the answer that they are waiting for the b/f and mates of the target who have gone for a drink. She then complains about him for a bit to the HB9 while I fluff with the other one,and it appears to me like this guy is doing nothing for her.

I isolate her she gives me her number without me even mentioning it. I carry on the kino and she tries to complain about her Bf again so I tell her that 'complaining about hom to me is doing nothing for either of us and while with me you just have a good time.' She agrees.

Soon I see that look in her eye that I've seen before, that look when you know that you are going to give her such a good time and she can't wait. But she isn't looking at me this time, its a guy walking down the beach. The boyfriend she has just been trying to complain about.

Now I whole heartedly believe in the PUA rule of leaving them better than you found them, and even though she had been complaining about him and I know I could have K-closed then and there, I just knew she really did want this guy, though I dont think she quite did ( they had only been together a month btw, I also have a lose rule about 6 months+ is off limits). She asked me to just run off down the beach with her away from him, now I've done this before and its a lot of fun, try it some time. Anyway I declined and joked 'my mates probably have called the coast search team.'

At this point I just returned to my mates. (Now there may be a lot of paranthesis in this post, so im shoving another one in here) (and here).

One of my mates asked me what happened, he's just getting into the whole PUA community, he was so confused as it was so AFC. To me however it seemed the most PUA thing I could have done , respecting the 'Leave her better than you found her' mantra.

PUA Karma then did its thing and the HB9 came over later gave me her number and We straight up organised the Day 2 paintballing.


Hope some can take something from this

Ace

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Note to self: Reffering to Chief by something other than his name has the knock on effect of strolling into the chat room and being asked; 'Crumpetberry are you a single hippie looking for a man'

Also, you gotta remember that girls oftentimes create drama out of thin air to force themselves into feeling those emotions called "tension" and "anticipation," which are necessary components of making them happy with their man. Sometimes, when they are "complaining" about their boyfriends, they aren't really complaining at all. They're just taking emotional drugs.

And... I'm starting to think that a girl cheating on her bf is basically a huge shit-test... hmm...

Her body language and tone while talking about him to her friend indicated a real dispassion for him, I guess just shows the lengths they will go to create that 'tension' and 'anticipation' hey chief. Also forgot to mention that the HB9 (the one who I ended up with the Day 2) told me that the HB8 seems to hate her boyfriend.

Girl cheating on bf.....One large shit test you say..... I had a word to put here but being attacked by a moth has completely thrown me.

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Note to self: Reffering to Chief by something other than his name has the knock on effect of strolling into the chat room and being asked; 'Crumpetberry are you a single hippie looking for a man'

OMG CHIEF. That makes so much sense. A girlfriend cheating on the boyfriend is a shit test for seeing the reaction of the boyfriend-seeing if his reaction demonstrates that of a boyfriend that cares. If you can keep the girl sexually happy, ect. The only reason for her to cheat is too see if what the boyfriend says is true. Makes perfect sense.

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I'm addicted to facing my fears.

I wish to hear more about Mittens, especially if Mittens says anything about recent events.