I need some negs that arent too harsh.

I dont want girls to think im an asshole i just want them to keep interest in me.

I'm by no means a frequenter on here, but I do think I can speak on behalf of many by saying negs are generally situational. Perhaps you should give us the situation and we can build off of that...

ok say im at a house party and assuming i know everyone there (its summer i party with all my high school friends). So i approach some HB 8 who was in a few of my classes in high school and ask her how university is going and stuff. The conversations are always dry and i want to mix things up and tease them and shit with negs. I dunno how to start though.
Ill give u an example of my conversations.

Me: Hey Amanda, hows it going?
Amanda: good how are u?
Me: im doing good so wat are u up to this summer?
amanda: i work at so and so doing this
me: cool cool
amanda: how bout u?
me: i do hedge trimming its a pretty good job.
amanda: cool, well i gtg (makes some lame excuse to leave) ill see u around
me: alright later


then i basically move on to the next girl, its fuckin lame and repetitive and im not gettin anywhere. By the way in high school i wasnt very popular and i was really skinny and was a late bloomer. I want to throw in negs and shit to spice things up. Also wat else can italk about either then boring shit like summer jobs.

make some shit up.. doesnt have to be true.... dont say hedge cutting say like gigolo or something

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Hedge cutter is a pretty terrible profession, even if it is true that it's not bad work, girls are not gonna look at you twice if you are a hedge cutter.

Say you are doing some part time bar work(Depends on your age obviously) or just make up something interesting on the spot, A DJ for example.

Secondly, don't ignore what job she says she is going to do, that is a perfect opportunity to score a neg on her, based on her job. If it's a good job neg her on getting an early start on the job market. If it's terrible, do i really need to tell you what to do?

Nah hedge trimming is a sick job im proud of. Im only 18 btw and i make more money than all of my friends. lol thats totaly besides the point though. Yea i geuss i could neg them based on wat they up to.

Well, it isn`t easy to post negs just like that, at least ones who can`t be found on the forum or through some reading allready.

I find that the most succesful negs are the ones who come straight "from the heart" and have a link to the subject wich is being discussed. Work on having a sly comment on everything she has to say, work on using this on your mates aswell, in a humouristic sort of way of course (wich is what a neg like this should be like anyways). This will come naturally to you after some time;)

As far as sniper-negs go, you can target almost everything about her to make her think she has DLV to you. "you have a booger", "you have eye crusties", "eww, you just spit on me" etc (wich you can find listed severeal other places on the forum aswell).



On another note, you should also work on other parts of your openers. If what you wrote was a typical conversation/opener you should do some research on how to improve your openings and get to the hook point (wich again can be found on the forums and in PUA books).

As far as your job goes, you don`t have to lie about it, just make it more interesting. You can ofcourse say something funny at first, like you are working as Brad Pitts stunt buttom (wich I use myself, depending on the situation.) If she persists however, don`t try to make more jokes, it will only seem like you are hiding something. Instead try "relabeling" what you already do. Instead of answering her with a simple "I cut hedges", try saying something like "I design the gardens of the future" or make your own version, just remember to be laid back and funny about it. It sounds more interesting and it leaves her there with more questions in her head, wich again is usefull to keep the conversation flowing:)