Hello all, I really need some help with this one.

I was doing pretty good and picking up several women. Well I eventually found one that I wanted to see about moving forward with. Now I know some of you might call this one-itis, but I am doing this to find a girl that I can spend some time with, not just to hook up with as many as I can.

Anyways, we started seeing each other and it was going well at first. Just recently she has started to blow me off and not spend any time with me 'one on one'. I confronted her about this and she said she understood but nothing has changed. Last night we were supposed to do something and she called me and said that her and her sis were going to meet some guy-friend of theirs and she wanted me to meet up.

Well we all went and had a few drinks and it was all good. Well at the end of the night we were all saying goodbye and that guy was asking what everyone was doing tomorrow (tonight) and she said that we should all get together. Well heres the deal, her and I were supposed to hang out tonight. Im sure she will include me in the plans, but I feel like she is the one making all the decisions and I just dont know how to get control over this situation.

I am very frustrated and at the point of just cutting it loose. We started off as friends and I would hate to lose her as a friend but I am not willing to stay in a situation where I am constantly aggravated just to save our friendship.

Any advice is greatly appreciated

Are you happy to be blown off or AMOG'd by your friends?

Maybe the problem is that you're not assertive enough, and have been laying too much of the decision making on her?

Where have you got to with this girl and over how long?

I would advise don't call her out on it again and don't go to this rearranged shit. Make new plans with people that can keep them. Once you're not jumping when she tells you to she will probably come back, you can tell her that you don't appreciate her changing plans on a whim and you thought she was better than that.

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Im not happy about this at all!
I f-closed her pretty early on.
Thats pretty much what I was thinking. I guess if I do start making plans and doing my own thing, it will change things a bit. I guess Im just confused about what to say when she asks about it. When she asks why I am being distant and blowing her off. Maybe she wont ask about it, but I have a feeling that this one will.

I have to add something to this...

She is online most of the day and I see her in my gmail window. A lot of the time I wait for her to initiate the chatting and saying 'hi.' Should I just say something nice to her? Or should I ignore her? Should I just make mindless chit chat? Any advice how to start swinging this back my way?

Thanks

Ok the way I would handle this is to try and get her out just you and her and show her a good time. Also neg her and dhv her the whole time. Its kinda hard to do anything with the amog because they are friends with him and you dont want to make them feel like you dont like him.