How do I get him to stop trying to wing me?

My best friend is a terrible wing. He is one of the worst AFCs ever. He never kissed a girl until college and finally has his first g/f at 22. His g/f is another story that makes him look even more like an AFC (wont get into it) Now that he has a g/f he thinks he is gods gift to girls and can get any girl.

So we go out every friday/saturday night and he thinks its his mission to be my wing and try and get me laid. We will be out and he'll go "hey omega lets go talk to those girls" We start to talk to them and it always ends in a fight, awkwardness or me just walking away. I honestly cant believe some of the stuff that comes out of his mouth.

Even If i go up to a set by myself he enters 2 minutes later and I just leave b/c I know it will end badly.

What do I do about this? I cant ditch him b/c he is my best friend.

Examples or what he does and says?


I have one friend who comes over to ever set I open and just says 'youre so smooth man!'... wtf...

tell him not to come in unless you ask him to

I experienced similar problems when my friend would cause my harm than good...so I just tell him, "let me do this myself". If he's your best friend, he will respect your wishes.

if that doesn't work, I know it sounds rude but find a different wing when you want to go out sarging. Maybe have a sit down since he is your best friend he should get it - and try to give him the basics of pua or at least an easy routine he can back u up on.

stop going places with him... that easy

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Does he know PUA or is he just an "uneducated" AFC? If not, teach him. If not, well, keep teaching him. I can't believe that as long as someone has normal intelligence and knows the basics of PUA that they can't at the very least be at a level where they're not setting you back.

Be an alpha, tell him how it works, and what to do if he's going to wing you.

Just tell him that you think you can handle yourself on your own. If that fails then tell him that he's hurting your game. I've been in this situation before and me and my friends pretty much have the default policy of "be (brutally) honest." If one of us is getting fat, we all tell him to his face and we are just great friends because of it... I think a good bud could respect your honesty.

Is he famaliar with any PUA strategies? Sounds like he has heart and just needs a mentor. Inner but no outer game.

Why not help him along his path. After all, he's your friend, right?

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- "Only those who are unworthy, ...get lucky". -CB

- "The larger an ego becomes, the more vunerable it is. Like a ballon while inflating gains more and more surface area for a pin to invade." - CB

Most of my friends are uneducated AFCs. Ive tried a couple times to talk to them about the game, but they think its stupid.

I guess i'll just have to tell him that I can handle it on my own.

Thanks