When I was reading the game I came across this statement " women don't respect guys who pay for them bu at the same time are turned off by guys who are cheap"

My question is If I take a girl out on a date aren't I supposed to pay even if yu make it clear that she is spending time with you and not the other way around?

What they mean is, Don't buy the girl stuff in order to win her approval. Buy her stuff to reward her for good company.

For a first date to the movies, you can try going Dutch and buy your own ticket. She won't say anything, trust me..

Sometimes, when I buy a girl a movie ticket, She'll say "Oh.. Thanks". and I say "Don't be, nothings for free, you owe the mob a favor now." and she'll be like "Oh ya, like what", and I'll say "You'll find out" or "4 course meal cooked by you at your house, my favorite recipe that is".
It makes me look less of a smuck that way.


ON a side note, to be quite honest, I've had girls buy me dinner, movies, and beer.

thanks