Absolutely. Emotionally. Yesterday I broke off and wrote about my life in blog. The things I went trough, my personal shit. Anyways, in short way, it's like this:

I have been abused in first seven grades in school. I have distanced myself from the girls, mostly because I thought that everyone would laugh if I would even talk to them. And they did. So I was totally insecure, especially after broken heart in seventh grade (awful typical example of one-itis).

So then I moved to Croatia. Absolutely another country, and I felt here like at home (my parents are from around here.). But I was still insecure and another broken heart, even though much less than that one in Prague.
Now I here, in first grade of High School, discovered PUA community. And I read everything I could get my hands on. But it just doesn't work, I am still too much insecure. And self-conscious about meeting girls, although I rationally know that there is nothing to be afraid of. Problem is, I know almost everyone around here. And I can't get suitable GF. PUArt just doesn't work. I am sad and emotionally broken. My friend says "hit the bottom, it will be better then" and I hit it quite alright.

Please, tell me, how to get trough this. How to pick-up HS girls, but mostly important, how to build myself for pickup later on, when I get older. Please, I sincerely ask you, virtually any comment is welcome.

Carpe Diem

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You don't know the future, you can't change the past. The only thing that matters is THE CURRENT MOMENT.

Go for college girls...then if you get turned down there's an excuse so your confidence doesn't go down (it shouldn't anyways)...if you do land a college girl, every girl in highschool will want to be with you...every guy will want to nail your woman.

You can't be afraid...go to another school to try cause its not like anyone knows you there, so that should boost your confidence.

-polo

Maybe you need my help... *points to location* I'm in college, BTW. Maybe you need a wingman...

Wingman would be a good idea...might be hard in highschool...I would try picking up girls outside of the actual school, coffee shops, bookstores..etc.

-polo

look man, if theres one thing that youve got on your side its that highschool is a very concise game . The rules are already layed out right there in front of you. Theres two kinds of guys who get girls in high school, jocks and rebels, you either buy in or make your stand. Chances are its not that no one likes you, its that no one knows you!
Think about it, when your walking down the hall do you constantly think to yourself "wow that person looks really dumb i would never talk to them" No! your to busy wondering what they are think of you! People in highschool are so self centered that they arn't going to notice you unless your in their face, and as soon as you walk away, theyre thinking about themselves again.
You have no Idea how lucky you are to have found this stuff at such a young age, by the time you graduate you'll probably be dating the cheerleading team. I was a complete loser in highschool. But since then I haven't met a single girl, from high school, that I had a crush on, that hasn't given me their phone number or slept with me. rent 'the breakfast club', that movie kind of explains everything. and don't be afraid to ask, go strait to the source. Walk right up to the hottest girl you see (make sure shes not with her friends) and strait up ask her, "what would I need to do to be cool." realize that she is not going to fall for you this way, but she has friends. if she doesn't answer, say "your no help," and just walk away. flip her off if it makes you feel better.
as for the confidence, Its something you have to learn to build from within yourself. try different shit, dress outlandishly (people will call you names, but you'll also get attention.) Dress really nice, not morman day nice, but cool, nice fitting jeans a trendy T shirt. next day wear a leather jacket to school. just see what happens. its all a big experiment bro, like some fucked up crazy video game. And remember these two things 1) Its OKAY to be normal. If someone asks you a question, just answer it short and sweet, you don't need to be creative and you don't need to explain yourself, you'll come off as layed back. And 2) its NEVER over. just because someone rejects you, does not mean you'll never be with them. it just means you need to rethink your strategy. The definintion of insanity is trying the same thing over and over and expecting different results. So if after a while something isnt working, try something else
oh, and join a martial arts class, getting hit in the face a couple of times can do wonders for you.
I could keep blathering forever. But I'll stop and let you digest. Keep your chin up kid, life's full of awesomeness, you'll find it soon

Dude, I totally know where you're coming from. It's a coincidence but I had a 7th grade heartbreak moment too and for a few years past it felt like nothing would work after it.

I'm 19 right now and started getting into the PUA stuff since last September and I am so glad I found out about this stuff as early as I did.

Well whatever you get from this forum and all the information you get, believe in it. Insecurity is only in our heads as I found out the hard way so just keep believing that this stuff works then the belief in yourself as well as confidence will come with it.

Remember, fighting your fears doesn't have to be painful. And when it comes to women and dating, it's especially fun as well as challenging. It's liberating.

You're so lucky to have found this community at such an early age like me (I'm 16). Let that idea ALONE get you past your anxiety. You could keep failing for YEARS and YEARS and YEARS to come and have it still not be an issue - Pretty soon you're gonna start getting success and you'll be on fire. You have SO MUCH TIME to improve man. My goal at the moment is just to read and study all the useful material I can, and to get out and use it as much as I CAN. I will SUCEED sometimes, and other times I will FAIL. But the failures are only learning curves. Post all your sticking points too and the gurus' advice should give you that extra boost.

If you need more info specifically on getting over your anxiety and sticking points, or just help in general, give me a shout.

Love

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"To guys, getting laid is a chore.
To women, getting laid is a choice"

-Ross Jeffries

read my post on inner game.

the best way to get high school girls is to buy them beer.
worked for me. still does.

haha JK.


yeah man. inner game.

start lifting weights.

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For players, its survival of the smoothest. [tg]
If it works for you stick with it.

it has all been said, innergame and get a hobby exept pua.
i train and have a dog that i take care of 95% on my own. It helps me relax and think + you get something 2 takabout when gaming.
(2bad u told every1 u were a pua (I understood it that way at least...)

you'll still do good.
I'l proppably get jumpedon 4 this but,,,,,, Start using nicotine when feeling pissy.

Take care and PM me if u feel like talking^^
im serius

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Come see conquer, or some1 else will

Ok, the issue is solved (i hope), but I want all of you Croatian dudes to contact me ASAP.

Thanks.

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